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Doncha love the upswing of the rollercoaster? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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Hmmm....how about opening a Myspace page in her name...and then posting the emails (especially the childish whiney ones) there for all to read? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />
Oh, and her truck? Simple enough to deal with...call a local towing company from a phone booth, tell them that you're her, and ask them to come take the truck to a local garage (on the other side of town) to have it looked at. Have a good description of the truck, with plate numbers and parking...tell them you've already got it worked out with the garage that they'll look at the car when they get it.
Just a thought. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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All the suggestions about fun ways to "deal with" OW's truck are noted with gratitude.
Best bet = silence. Bt I do want that plant out of H's office. And out of sight.
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Yeah....I agree with ya, Limbo....Owl's ideas are fodder for folly we'd all love to indulge in. But silence is the best way to go.
Whatcha gonna do with the plant? Ask SH on Thurs.?
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Oh...I totally agree too, btw.
Just threw this in to give you a little humor. By no means do I suggest that you actually do it.
Someday if you're interested...ask me what I had planned for my wife's OM...not that I carried it out, but it was a great fantasy for a while. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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Hey Owl,
I'm interested in what you had planned for your W's OM. You can put it on the 50 Something + or - Thread if ya want.
Also, wasn't it you who posted on the Affair$ $uck thread or another thread that your W planned a secret birthday event for you?
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Acey- Yep, my wife did plan on getting the car from me to set up something for my birthday, but ended up feeling really bad that night so she couldn't. So, what she DID do was to ask if she could come along the next dau as my youngest and I went to a local paintball place to window shop and get him some stuff. She sat there quietly the whole time while I drooled all over things...and then as we got ready to go, she calmly went up to the clerk and asked for one of most everything I'd drooled on. She'd kicked money back a little at a time so that she could get me something nice. It was VERY sweet of her. She also had several small gifts for me over that whole weekend. Needless to say, while my kids were happy that my wife gave me such a wonderful birthday, they regretted her generosity last weekend when we hit the paintball field! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> On the 'evil side of Owl'...here's a link to a thread where I listed some of it...enjoy! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> http://www.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/sho...rue#Post2866159
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Hey Limbo.....if ya need to avenge your sitch vicariously through Mr. OWL, here....read this thread.....whooo eeee.
My question, Owl, is WHAT would you have done if you had discovered your W was involved in a PA as well as an EA with this creep?
On second thought, don't answer that here. We don't need to threadjack Limbo's thread any more than we already have. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" />
I think I'll use this idea for a Friday Fun Thread maybe this week. Then you can answer it and link your 2005 thread with all your vindictive, cold, callus, destructive faux feats of revenge there. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
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SORRY FOR THE TJ, LIMBO.
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Okay, Owl
your hired <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
Limbo, I think it's great that he is willing to go with you on your charity trip. I think that BS's have a really hard time when we have to spend time apart for things, We really aren't able to suppress those fears of "when the cats away..." His going with you gives you time together and helps you to not trigger then as well.
Best of luck with your up coming surgery.
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May the love hidden deep inside your heart find the love waiting in your dreams. May the laughter that you find in your tomorrow wipe away the pain you find in your yesterdays.
Recovering....it's a long road, even with a dedicated FWH
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Hey Limbo,
Did you get a chance to read Owl's devious OP revenge ideas' thread? It's freakin' hilarious.
How'd the rest of your day go? Is the rollercoaster still on the upswing?
So glad H wants to go with you on your trip. What game tickets did you get for late season?
Hang in there, Limbo. Cling to this upswing and remember its peace when the pendulum swings the other way.
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Acey, Th link doesn't work for me. ????
Rollercoaster at least not on a downswing. Day was OK, bu long and tiring. Car dealer did not finish until after 4, and it took 2 hrs to get home, and then I had to immediately take DS13 to his therapy appt. Then to dinner. And got home and DS23 sweetly informed me that we were out of DS13's preferred oatmeal, since DS23 had eaten the last of it. But then the dog was in urgent need of a walk! So I triaged, walked the dog, went to the store, took DS 13 to bed, etc etc etc.
Tickets = White Sox. Last day of season. If I didn't have to be in Chicago for a meeting, we'd be at fan appreciation day for the Dodgers. Oops. Oh, well, it adds to the list of teams we've seen in their own stadiums.
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Hi Limbo,
H and I have a big day out and about today...details later... but I wanted to check in and see how you're doing.
Hope all's well as you prepare for your surgery. I'm praying for you.
Acey
P.S. Did ya see I had to add to my sig line. Details on my Smiles & Trials posts from yesterday and day before.
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Acey,
I've been out and about for the day, too. Not sure how much surgery prep is going on but there sure is a lot of stuff to do relating to the rest of life.
I did see your sig line and read the change...I am sorry I did not respond to that before....been a bit self-absorbed. I am sorry that you had more "stuff" thrown at you, but you are doing GREAT.
I was feeling sorry for myself last night, told H how much it bugs me that he was so wrapped up in OW for so long. And how much it stinks to be hanging around wondering if he is going to ever be emotionally fully in this M. And H responded that he is reading that time and distance will help. So at least he is willing to accept that the addiction model MIGHT be true, and act accordingly.
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And H responded that he is reading that time and distance will help. So at least he is willing to accept that the addiction model MIGHT be true, and act accordingly. [color:"red"] YYYYYYEEEEEAAAAAAA! YEA! YEA! [/color] <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> That is great news. It may be a baby step, but hey....it's a step. WE took a big step today.....I'll saunter over to my Smiles and Trials thread later to post the details. So glad for your rollercoaster double upswing, Limbo. Acey
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ILL,
Ithink he should be smart enough to realize that time and distance do make the most enormous difference.
as acey said... yeahhhhhhh
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Acey, The link doesn't work for me. ???? I'll repaste the whole link.....maybe. Owl's Virtual AnticsDoes that one work? How's it going today? Acey
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I read Owl's stuff. Funny! Would make a great book.
I'm OK today. Have to get to the store and pack a suitcase for the surgery aftercare place.
We'll need to leave by 4:40 am tomorrow.
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Yikes! Early morning tomorrow. I'll be thinking about you tomorrow, and wishing you a quick, perfect, easy surgery and very speedy, comfortable recovery, with plentyof time to relax and NOT worry.
Check in when you can and let us know how it goes.
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AmI, Thanks. Not worrying will be hard.
OW sent another email today.
"Are you ever going to have the decency to tell me what happened?"
I went through the read,forward, delete routine. But she will undoubtedly show up at his office one of these days.
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Geez. You'd think that the NC e-mail would have answered that question .... he figured out she's screwing up his M, that's what happened .... and who is SHE to be asking about DECENCY??? Obviously she just doesn't get it. Has she been calling or txt'ing or trying other ways to get ahold of him? I would have expected her to give up on trying to contact him a long time ago, especially given her whining about how mean he was, and her protests of how this was just a friendship, there was nothing wrong because thank goodness she never got physical with him, her husband knows all about it, blah blah blah.
If it was so casual, then why all the begging for attention e-mails? She takes a while to catch on, doesn't she?
What are you going to do with e-mails while you're dealing with your surgery and recovery? Is there anyone you trust enough to take care of the read/forward/delete routine for you? Or can you set up an automatic rule for it to happen? Seems like she might take this oportunity to break through with some contact .... and he might still be weak enough to fall for it if he sees it.
Maybe he'll just have to come camp out with you in your recovery room for a few days. Catering to your every whim would be a good way to keep him too busy to bother with e-mail. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
Good luck tomorrow.
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