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My husband is running me around in circles. He had an affair and blaming me about everything. It is really awful. He won't go to counseling and I don't know what to do. I think in counseling we would be able to sort out fact from fiction and be stronger. I am at a lost and I am trying to watch out for him but he just hates me. I don't want the divorce and I am not sure how to fight it and get into counseling. If he is being ugly, can you protect yourself and save your marriage at the same time? It is costing me a lot emotionally to remain silent. Thank you for any words of wisdom.
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Joined: Sep 2003
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Glad you have found us. It is a good place to be.
Please let us know what you have done to expose the affair so far. From some of your other posts, it seems that the other woman's husband found out and notified you. Is that correct? And now he is naming your husband as a party to the divorce in court?
Is your husband still having contact with his affair partner?
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Joined: Jan 2001
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Concentrate on you. Finish your plan A. Did you finish reading SAA and HNHN (Harley)?
If yes, please read Love must be tough (Dobson).
You can't fix or teach a Ws anything. You can only control you and your family. Learn to protect yourself and your family from this enemy (ws).
L.
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