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Our friend Fighting alone-again is in court for her divorce hearing today and tomorrow.
She fought like a TIGRESS for her marriage but her STBXH is deliberately dissolute, abandoning his marriage, his daughter and his reputation with seeming ease.
Canada is a "no fault" country and it is just possible that she might find herself with a huge debt on top of everything else.
Can you join me in a prayer that FAA will get a righteous settlement from this, that it will represent a new start for her and her DD and that evil will not prevail in this Godly woman's life please ?
Many thanks
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Yes Bob. Please let FAA know we are keeping her in our hearts and prayers.
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Will do Bob! How was the vacation??? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />
Me, BS
Her, Forgiven
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Multiple A's that ended '90
Rebuilding In Faith since then...
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RIF Ciao Bella ! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> You have mail.
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She's a brave one, that FAA. My thoughts are with you...go get 'em, sassy.
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She has been in my prayers and thoughts today.... I do so wish she can have a JUST and fair end to this pain.
Life may feel as if you are constantly getting kicked on a daily basis, living is about picking yourself up each day and going on and on and on regardless.
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May God Bless you, my good friend, fighting-alone! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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FAA,
You've been lifted up in prayer!
God Bless you!
BS(Me) - 47
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D final - Dec 08
Kids - 14s,13d,8d
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FAA,
Lifting you and DD up in prayer!
Peace and blessings to you!
BS (me)
ExWS -Drac
DD 9
DSS 15
D Day 11/06
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"You Can't Fix Stupid" - My Mom
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FAA,
You are in my prayers and thoughts.
G-d Bless you!
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
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Thanks Everyone! I felt you sitting in the gallery while I was in court. It is done! The judge was fair and although it was a full blown trial, I was complimented on my preparedness and how I acted.
I only cried a couple of times but managed to make my case. Although I did not get what I had hoped for in the way of arrears, I can live with it and am feeling 200 pounds lighter now that the albatross aka Dork is off my shoulders.
I am at peace and know that this is the best solution. Amazes me how much drama went on in the last 6 years that could have been settled by standing in front of a judge for two days!
The divorce will be final after Dork shows he has fulfilled some of the financial stuff. But, in my heart it IS done now.
DD is ecstatic that this is over. She is relieved that I have sole custody and guardianship. DD registered for school under my maiden name. If her father refuses to sign the legal name change, she will still not be using his name any longer in her personal life.
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D final Dec31/07
Long hard road & at peace now
Unrepentant serial cheater living with DP4 for 4yrs
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FAA,
Good to see you again. You truly fought the good fight. Dork is the big loser here. Bless you and your DD.
BS (me) 40
WW 38
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Got "I don't love you" letter 8/05.
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Thanks, losther! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Yes he is the biggest loser. But denial is a game he doe succeed at very well. He lost DD and that imho is an irreplaceble loss. NOTHING in the world would make that a win sitch for me. I would live in a tent before I gave up her love and respect and trust willingly! But that is me. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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Long hard road & at peace now
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I'm happy for you F-again. Now at least you can relax in peace, knowing you did all you could to save your marriage. Life will be good again, even though the marriage failed.
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