Hmmmmmmm....


So checking up on your own spouse is somehow conidered aginst the law, but betraying your spouse is not even a topic of discussion?

What's wrong with this system?????

All Blwaaings,
Jerry

Let me be clear...it is NOT against the law in every state to use the GPS or follow someone...it ll depends on the state law. I would say that if you live together and jointly own the vehicle that you would be safe in most cases doing this...but if you do NOT live together I would say that a person is opening themself up to stalking laws in many states.

There is a lot wrong with the system. But, I am happy with these laws that limit this stuff. There is such a potential for abuse... a physically abusive H could use it to track down a wife that leaves him under the guise of thinking she was cheating. There are just so many possibilities for abuse, I am more comforatble with these things having limits.

Also, as I stated earlier....if you need to use a GPS or PI to track a spouse...are they really worth the effort??? I think not.

"Also, as I stated earlier....if you need to use a GPS or PI to track a spouse...are they really worth the effort??? I think not."

But MEDC, when you are checking on a spouse that is cheating, you really have to be willing to be just about as low as they are. I was such a trusting, submissive wife, it makes me sick.

I even asked my hubby if he was cheating. He denied, and promised that things would get better if I just held on. Meanwhile the rat was porking our neighbor's wife, while the neighbor was fighting in Iraq.

I am not a lawbreaker, but have you ever noticed that criminals almost always plead innocent, and are only put away when they are CAUGHT?

Once a BS knows the truth of their life, then they can make an informed decision whether to stay or go.

Exactly! You need to know the truth about whether an affair is really going on, to be able to make an informed decision about whether to go or to stay.

You feel that way, MEDC. But the vast majority of BS's that come here to actually fight to save their marriages don't. They came here because THEY feel that the person they married IS worth the effort.

If most people didn't feel that way, this board would be empty, because no one would attempt to save their marriages. We're here to help the ones that DO feel that their marriage, that the person they are married to, IS worth it.

There are some devices out there that would require less frequent checking. www.mightygps.com

A service that lets you know remotely where the car is might be too much info in real time. It could be an ugly confrontation to show up at the car location.