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Welcome. Wow, we always say all affairs are the same, but this one sure has a different twist. I think you will get more help on the Pregnancy/Child forum, so hope you will post there too. All the experts on how to fit an other child into your life post there.

But the rest of your situation is the same. Whether he thinks so or not, he IS having an affair. The other woman is meeting some of his needs and you are meeting the rest of them. What a lucky guy.

Plan A is the starting point, which is showing him what a great wife you could be, with no disrespectful judgements or angry outbursts. It also includes exposure. That would be telling your children, the families, and also friends what is going on in your marriage.

Are you up to that?

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tarita

sorry to say this but if you ask me.............this OW doesn't sound like she's much of a lesbian to me.........
Is your husband telling you this????

If he told you that she isn't interested in men..........well.............his words sure don't meet her actions.......

He is definately having an affair.......I don't know how else I would/could call it.

Read all you can and consider to post in General Questions as there is more going on over there.

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Me-46yo + Husband-49yo
Met 1975/ Married 1980
H had 3 month affair/D-d January 2001
Grandparents since Dec.2005
Recovered and moving on and we're looking forward to the years ahead!

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