Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum
This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at
mbrestored@gmail.com
|
|
|
|
Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 132
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 132 |
I'm thinking of writing a "moving on with my life" letter to WH. Kinda like Dr. Dobson describes in "Love Must Be Tough." Good idea? Or I'm I just better off keeping silent?
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 31
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 31 |
What do you want to tell him in your letter.
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 132
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 132 |
I guess I just want to be able to say how badly he's hurt me and my kids. That we won't be friends. That this has changed me forever. But that I no longer want him back. I just want to speak my mind.
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 31
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 31 |
I think you should wait on the letter. Because right now It may cause more harm than good. Has your H left you for AW?
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Jan 2001
Posts: 17,837
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Jan 2001
Posts: 17,837 |
Dr Dobson's plan is similar to plan B. R U done with your plan A yet?
L.
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 132
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 132 |
I'm very much done with plan a. WH doesn't say if he's with the OW or not. And I don't give him an opportunity to. He's very passive/aggressive and more than a smidge narcisstic. The more I think about it I don't think a letter is a good idea. He would probably take it as a desperate attempt to make him feel bad. And somehow he would twist everything I write to make me look bad.
|
|
|
|
0 members (),
523
guests, and
71
robots. |
|
Key:
Admin,
Global Mod,
Mod
|
|
|
Forums67
Topics133,624
Posts2,323,523
Members72,028
| |
Most Online6,102
Jul 3rd, 2025
|
|
|
|
|
|
