Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum
This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at
mbrestored@gmail.com
|
|
|
|
Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 70
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 70 |
When you expose do you simply say that you need help with your marriage and your spouse is having an affair? Do you go into details like when it happened etc. (the drama of it)? Do you ask the people to call? My true motivation is to help my WS b/c I really believe he is confused and needs help. Do you warn them the WS can be irrational and may say negative things or do you just keep it simple?
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 70
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 70 |
Also, do I say anything to friends about the OW? Due to the adultery, she is not allowed alimony so she is very motivated. Or will it take the focus off helping my WS to discuss the OW?
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Oct 2005
Posts: 7,464
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Oct 2005
Posts: 7,464 |
You tell people that your husband is having an adulterous affair with OW (NAME HER). You tell them you love your husband very much and want to save your marriage. You ask for their assistance in supporting your marriage.
Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
Fully Recovered.
|
|
|
|
0 members (),
379
guests, and
85
robots. |
|
Key:
Admin,
Global Mod,
Mod
|
|
|
Forums67
Topics133,625
Posts2,323,524
Members72,035
| |
Most Online6,102
Jul 3rd, 2025
|
|
|
|
|
|
