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(trying my Q's again)
I had a horrible day today and all b/c I won't 'support' his A. I also got a nice little e-mail from him where I found out that he has now rewritten not only our marriage history but our entire history all together. I read on here before that this would happen so you would have thought that I would have been prepared but I feel like he really hit me below the belt on that one. As I have said before (on my previous threads) I've been working on Plan A and he has noticed but he thinks I'm in denial or that I'm just pretending that everything's fine (which is really making him mad, I guess) or that I'm okay with the fact that he's having an A and he tells me that I'm crazy... that I should hate him etc. Oh, what to do?????
I guess I should state what I meant that I won't support his A... I found a calling card which I know he uses to call her... I don't know where he goes to call her yet but anyways... I took it and of course now he's mad... so I know you're not suppose to do any LB's during Plan A but you can't sit there and support the A either so what should I have done???? -and what do I do about him thinking I'm crazy business??
I'm puzzled about his feeling guilty business and withdrawl state since he finally admitted to the A. (saying things like maybe he's not worth it, but also not talking to me, not sleeping with me, etc) What do I do with that? Is this 'normal'?
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