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Dead End #1932145 08/26/07 12:11 PM
Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 7 H hjkl OP Junior Member
OP hjkl Junior Member H Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 7	Read all MB Principles Executed Plan A & Plan B WS now has told everyone that he is not having an affair (Exposure won't work) Next steps?

Re: Dead End hjkl #1932146 08/26/07 01:02 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 303 Houston, TX C cathys01 Member
cathys01 Member C Joined: May 2006 Posts: 303 Houston, TX	Perhaps you should post your situation, including history (how long married), number of children, how many/what types of affairs on either part. All we know about you is that your husband is a physician...not really much to go on. You said you've read the MB principles. How did you execute plans A and B? How long? How did he respond? Why do you think exposure won't work? What proof do you have of the affair? It's hard to tell you what steps to take next without knowing fully what steps you've actually taken so far... Me - BW/FWW Him - FWH/BH Still figuring it all out - but we're figuring it out TOGETHER <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Re: Dead End cathys01 #1932147 08/26/07 01:27 PM
Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 7 H hjkl OP Junior Member
OP hjkl Junior Member H Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 7	M: 10 years , 1 Affair Plan A: 3 months Plan B: 1 month WS does not accept he is involved in a Affair File for D? Options?

Re: Dead End hjkl #1932148 08/26/07 01:41 PM
Joined: Feb 2005 Posts: 1,632 S shinethrough Member
shinethrough Member S Joined: Feb 2005 Posts: 1,632	Quote M: 10 years , 1 Affair Plan A: 3 months Plan B: 1 month WS does not accept he is involved in a Affair File for D? Options? HJKL, If you want help here you will find it. But you need to give up more than the "cliff notes" version of what's going on before you get that. Suppose my answer was: yes, no wait maybe, perhaps not. Is that going to help you in any way? I think not, care to "give it up?" All Blessings, Jerry

Re: Dead End hjkl #1932149 08/26/07 01:42 PM
Joined: Jan 2001 Posts: 17,837 O Orchid Member
Orchid Member O Joined: Jan 2001 Posts: 17,837	Quote Read all MB Principles Executed Plan A & Plan B WS now has told everyone that he is not having an affair (Exposure won't work) Next steps? What does he say he is having? Who isn't buying his story? Who has tried to talk some sense into him? Did you take the EN questionnaire and are you ready to call Steve H @ MB for some phone counseling? L.

Re: Dead End Orchid #1932150 08/26/07 04:05 PM
Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 38 U underchange1 Member
underchange1 Member U Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 38	I am new here and the more info you can give the more the people here can help My ws says she is doing nothing wrong or I am not doing anything it kinda helps to vent here instead of at you spouse if they are involved in a A you are not gonna get any evedence from them, they will deny it constantly wish i woulda found this place along time ago Prayers are with you and your sitch Me= 32 W = 28 Married 8 yrs together 1 1/2 prior 2 1/2 yr old daughter Things are better but not fixed

Re: Dead End hjkl #1932151 08/26/07 07:36 PM
Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas M MelodyLane Member
MelodyLane Member M Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas	Quote WS does not accept he is involved in a Affair If he is in an affair, he most certainly does accept it. Just becuase he lies about it does not mean he does not accept it. NOR DO YOU NEED HIS ADMISSION TO KNOW THE TRUTH. The admission of a liar is not necessary. Most waywards deny their affair, it does not mean anyone believes them or that exposure failed. Can you give us the details of your situation so we can perhaps help you? What happened? To whom did you expose? Is the OW married? Is this a workplace affair and if so, have you exposed it there? "It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101

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