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My husband has come to me with the fact that he doesn't seem to think we are compatable any longer. For some time he has started to move forward with his life and has not shared his dreams or goals with me at all until now. And he wants out of our 3 year marriage. We have two kids. I am really trying to make sense of this but I feel betrayed that he never talked to me about what he wanted out of life and now I have to either agree to become someone that he is willing to stay with or he leaves. How can I get him to realize this is not fair and to see exactly what he is really trying to do. I am confused, hurt and absolutely angry about this.
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What exactly is he trying to make you become? You should never change for another person. I do believe people grow apart (as my husband and I have done), but do not think it means you are not meant to be together. You just get swept up in other things and neglect each other. Especially with 2 kids.....that is a lot of work and attention.
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