someday I hope my WH marries a WW and they make each other's life a living h3ll. Pass the STD's back & forth, live w/ doubt and suspicion every day, etc. And both w/ the regret of what they gave up to have that sort of life.

Very unchristian of me, and someday I hope to feel complete indifference toward him. But that day is not today.

I feel so bad for all the spouses that cared and were faithful to the WS. It is the ultimate injustice.

Can you all tell I'm little bitter & angry today? Gotta love the rollercoaster!

SL,

We've all been there. Even now, after all of this time, I still find myself musing over just how miserable my FWH would have been if he would have left me for the OW.

Actually, they both would have been. She thought he was some sort of high roller because he always had plenty of cash. Of course she didn't know that I was the one with the big income paying the bills back home.

Of course, FWH never actually contemplated leaving me for OW, but she was sure counting on it for awhile.

The would have probably done each other in!

Point is, we are recovered and I still get some evil bad thoughts once in a while.
Opps.

Who

I'm hoping for a spectacular failure from my soon to be ex wife.

The OM no longer wants her after I told his wife and she beat the carp out of him. He is "trying" to piece his family back together and has totally rejected my wife.

My wife reacted by flat out divorcing me.

May she wind up dancing on tables or smoking crack in a gutter.

LOL. I know the feeling. We want justice and we want it now. I was actually shocked when the OW's XBF said he wanted to "help" my WH and the OW to be "happy" in their new relationship.

I was like HAPPY?!?! Yeah, I guess we should just do away with the criminal justice system too and wish criminals who cause massive emotional devastation through their selfish, cruel actions "happiness". That's real logical.

Anyway, I know way too much about my WH and the OW to be under the illusion that they will be "happy" in the long run.

I understand and I do have those rollercoster too....this morning actually....

Sometimes I wish my WH would have just chose the OW instead of coming home so that she would have cheated on him and dumped him (chances of this happen is 99%) and got pregnant by another man. I wanted to see him crushed, lied too, go insane, because I was and still am crushed and going through all the motions.

But i have gotten better...Now I only feel that way once a week. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

I sometimes wish my prayer that WXH and OW would break up for good would have been answered 'NO'.

WXH still hates me for contacting OW and filling her clueless a$$ in on a few things (that he had been e-mailing poems to me, that he was demanding that I come along for visitation with the kids, that he wanted the 'right' to come over to my house every day after work to have dinner with us and watch movies, that she was only OW # 7...) He blames me for them breaking up. He insisted on going through with the divorce even though they had been broken up for over a year before the divorce was final AND he was trying to talk me into moving in with him. He divorced me as punishment for losing OW.

What an idiot.

It's highly doubtful that they would still be together now even if I had skipped it all: exposure, Plan A Plan B.
She would have gotten pregnant (her secret agenda that he was mega-shocked about LOL), they would have gotten married (which he did NOT want to do), he would have cheated on her, then she would have dovorced him, and he'd have to pay her child support so she could buy more stuff at the mall...

Well, that isn't exactly an MB/Harley strategy, but it apparently worked, so there you go. There is at least one other story floating around with the same twist. Why am I amused? No, why am I ROFLMAO! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Does that make me a bad person <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

Larry

it's just killin ya, isn't it??? LOL <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

I think we all go through some form of this. I want my ex to gain 200 pounds and be cheated on by her stb new H. He's not OM, but I want her to have a taste of her own medicine and know and understand the pain of having the one person in the world you swore your life to betray you in a very heartless way and throw away years.

True justice would be for him to take all her things and get primary of their eventual kids.

But I temper such thoughts with the fact that I don't want my kids to suffer through another divorce and more chaos in their lives.

So I hope it works out till they turn 18. Then let all ****** break loose and have the pounds come on!

I'll be sweating away in the gym hoping I one day look like one of the guys from 300. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Yea, I want to know the details so bad it hurts <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Seriously, before I discovered MB, I had a confrontation with the OM and WW at the time that was near a classic. In effect, the OM left town just ahead of a solid [censored] kicking. I was hot on his trail. If the kids hadn't been there, it would have taken that route. I was madder than a wet cat and totally disgusted with my wife, him and me.

Now it is that I believe in MB. On the other hand, I recovered some pride that night and pride helped me to do what I had to do to build a new relationship with my wife. My lost manhood was restored, never to again depart, which you see as a theme in many of my posts Mel. I am clueless when it comes to wayward husbands, something that is against my honor system. I do see the shock value. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

But when it comes to wayward wives, I totally believe that manhood is very, very important. As a precursor, I had retreated inside because of a business failure and efforts to keep one business going to support the family. Poor communication was also a factor as was about a dozen other things.

In effect, discovering that my wife had committed adultery temporarily emasculated me. I was blown away and more than a bit insane for about a month. Then I got my head on straight and the rest, so the story goes, is history. I found MB a month after that confrontation and MB helped me to go the route. I dunno if I would have made it without the help of MB.

Larry

omg, I tried so hard to not say out loud the things I wished for, cause they weren't nice and now here is this thread.

The things I wished for came true pretty much. I always say careful what you wish for right?

I never wished for him dancing on tables and doing crack in the gutter though LOL.

this thread is cracking me up.

Okay, time for me to tell a quick story.

It seems that OM recovered pretty quick in spite of all his promises and the usual scripted declarations. He met someone not many weeks after he got run off with his tail between his legs.

I somehow obtained a picture of his now wife. Uh, she may have a great personality and lots of brains. And she knows about his adultery. I suspect a short rope.

Larry.

Larry, you pole cat!

Here ya go! A female BS is driving down the road in her Ford Taurus. She is coming home from the office at 5pm; traffic is heavy on this road. She looks very nice today in her Chanel suit that she wore to an important presentation.

And who drives past her on her way home? Her H of 20 years, who just left her last month for another woman. HE HAS THE OW WITH HIM.

ENRAGED BS whips car around and gets behind WS and OW, honking for them to pull over. The new white truck [recently bought for WS with BS's bonus money] pulls over on side of busy ride. WS heads back to BS car. BS kicks, punches and slaps him and generally kicks his [censored] on the side of the road, to the shock and horror of passing motorists.

BS then looks up and sees WHITE, HORRIFIED face of OW [a house painter who is 10 yrs older than BS] looking out of back window of pick up. BS decides she needs a little [censored] whooping too and heads to pick up. OW locks the door and starts screaming and crying.

BS, failing to get into truck to have a "chat" <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> with princess, heads back to WS. He runs past her like a crying girl, jumps in the truck and locks the door. He is screaming "LEAVE US ALONE, BS!!!" <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/teary.gif" alt="" />

BS gets back into Taurus and smashes car into back of Ford truck...over and over again. WS drives off to the police station seeking protection. BS follows him to police station. WS gets out and comes to car: "IF YOU DON'T LEAVE ME ALONE, I WILL GET THE POLICE ON YOU!!"

BS tells him to go in there and tell the police his wife is kicking his [censored] because he is with his HO. PLEASE DO.

WS decides that, out of the goodness of his special heart, he doesn't want the mother of his children to get tossed into jail for kicking his [censored] so he decides to not run to the police for protection. What a special GUY. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> He offers to take the HO home instead. [in the truck purchased with money earned by the BS]

So, there ya go, Larry! The most important take-away of this story is that they were divorced 6 months later. The moral of the story is that it is a lovebuster to kick your husband's [censored] on the side of the road during 5 o'clock traffic!

I have let my stbxw find out about my new job, new truck and GF in a roundabout way.


The fact that I am giving another woman the lifestyle she thought she deserved is sweet and OM won't even give her the time of day. The challenge for him is over and the thrill of destroying a marriage is gone, time to move to another one.

I want her to hate me just as much as I hate her.

Yes, but didn't they eventually recover? And the kids then had their father back and BS had her husband. And the skank went on her way in life?

While the details of the confrontation were great, I was also looking for the outcome. Life has many twists and turns - and some have more drama than others. I slipped into drama queen mode on that one, one with a happy ending <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Larry

Oh, be still my beating heart.

MeLvina!

That is exactly the way we handle things up here in la-la land.

I have tried for as long as I have been on the board, to not promote violence...but chit, wtf else ya gonna do. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

The OMW called me to let me hear her beat him with a bat.

He was screaming like a little girl.

This dude was supposed to be some sort of marine sniper crap and there he was getting the beatdown by his wifey.

Thank God she got ahold of him and not me, I had already survived a gunshot wound and was feeling pretty bullet proof on my pain meds.

Names names, Melody. That sleazy-cheating-husband-[censored]-kicking BW is my hero.

Jo

That is funny as he!!, Melody. I think that's something only a woman could get away with, though.

It certainly does sting to see the wayward living off your hard earned cash. It really stings to see a guy that looks just like you enjoying the things you bought and spending time with your kids.

I have nothing against him. He's not OM.

In my dreamworld, though, I would have kept my stuff and my kids and let her go buy her own things to live her sinful life with. He can have her, but can I have my HDTV, sofa, computer, and kids back? Please, keep the bed. Don't really want that back.

Please oh please oh please let the slow metabolism and sedentary lifestyle kick into high gear sometime soon.

See, the problem is that wishing these things brings you bad karma as well.

So, I hope she gets a six pack, great health, and a loving fulfilling reltationship.

Someone please help. I'm very confused right now. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />

Anyone here see "The Weatherman" with Nicolas Cage? I swear that movie describes how most BH's feel. Certainly is a reflection of how I feel.

ROFLMAO.

Glad for the post and glad the fan club (of which I am a member) got stirred up and posted a few "Attagirl" comments.

With tongue firmly in cheek, one benefit of such a confrontation - and the baseball story, is that it would be impossible under those circumstances for the WS to haul around any doubts about the BS emotional state of mind.

Larry