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#1933501 08/30/07 11:06 AM
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I went to an amusement park with my son yesterday and he pointed out this young woman's t-shirt to me...

"My boyfriends wife doesn't like me."

My son said...

I wish I could go rip that right off of her!

Good kid.

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"My boyfriends wife doesn't like me."

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JEEZ!

how old was this girl?
the sad thing (well, 1 of many) is she may have actually looked at it as a joke....not having any real concept of how infidelity ruins so many lives.

i had a friend whose 11 year old came home from the mall w/ a t-shirt that said..PORN STAR in sparkled letters.
i think she got it at Limited II...she had no idea what a porn star was. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

editing to add.....yes,that is a good kid you have.

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"My boyfriends wife doesn't like me."


Worse yet, she could have been BRAGGING....

In my situation, the OW was PROUD that she was his "GIRLFRIEND" and throughout the whole time, even to my face, referred to me, disparagingly, as being HIS "WIFE"...


I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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Proud to be a skanky ho; just imagine. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />


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she was about 25...and looked like a tramp.

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She may as well be wearing a shirt that says POS.


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she was about 25...and looked like a tramp.

Looked like a tramp? I like Mel's description, "Skanky Ho!"

Larry

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Worse yet, she could have been BRAGGING....

In my situation, the OW was PROUD that she was his "GIRLFRIEND" and throughout the whole time, even to my face, referred to me, disparagingly, as being HIS "WIFE"...

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yuk!
i have a friend who has a very screwed-up sister who has habit of dating married men (particularly cops) and makes a point to break up the marriage....not caring what innocent lives she drags down w/ her. it's very sad.

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my son said she was a hoochie momma!

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I like your son.

Larry

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my son said she was a hoochie momma!

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what exactly does hoochie momma mean?

i have heard guys use the word, but it sounded like a compliment when they said it. Infact, my BIL tells his little boys to use it.

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Dennis Rodman has been seen wearing a t-shirt that reads, "I'm not gay but my boyfriend is".

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it's a polite term for a slutt

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me too larry....

he has NO tolerance for that stuff!

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it's a polite term for a slutt

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i think some people have it mixed-up w/ it mixed up w/ "HOT".......either that or my BIL has a serious Madonna/****** complex and he's already passing it on to his 5 year old. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

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What a skank. She'll probably end up getting her [censored] kicked by some betrayed wife that's a complete stranger to her. Very fitting.

The OW in my sitch proudly called herself his "mistress" and I was the "little wifey".

We have a world where people think being immoral and sleazy is something to be proud of. Sad.

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The worse ones don't wear T-SHIRTS like that... and LOOK and SEEM INNOCENT...like a SNAKE IN THE GRASS... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />

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yuk!
i have a friend who has a very screwed-up sister who has habit of dating married men (particularly cops) and makes a point to break up the marriage....not caring what innocent lives she drags down w/ her. it's very sad.


I'm SAD for the FAMILIES..but I consider the HOs, SLUTTs, HOOCHIES, PYTs(Pretty Young Thangs) or WHATEVER to be EVIL...


I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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The worse ones don't wear T-SHIRTS like that... and LOOK and SEEM INNOCENT...like a SNAKE IN THE GRASS...

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i agree w/ you there, mimi.

anyone who would wear a t-shirt like that has such skewed values to begin with. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />

the more manipulative, the more evil.

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>In my situation, the OW was PROUD that she was his "GIRLFRIEND" and throughout the whole time, even to my face, referred to me, disparagingly, as being HIS "WIFE"...


Like being someone's "stolemeat" is something to take home to momma?

Pur-lease.


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When I was a young woman I bought and wore a t-shirt while vacationing in Quebec.

The shirt said, "A propos, quel est votre nom ?"

I knew the words translated to read, "By, the way, what's your name."

But I was too naive or just plain too stupid to get the real message. Above the words were two sets of footprints in opposite orientations. The footprints were positioned to represent a couple having missionary-position sex.

I wore that shirt everywhere shirt for at least six months before my father saw me in it and told me what it meant. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />


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