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Would Harley's book "Surviving an Affair" be appropriate for both the betrayed spouse and wayward spouse or just for the betrayed spouse?


Both, but the WS is unlikely to read it if the affair is active.

Hopefully this thread will give you a place to ask questions and get some help. When you decide to really seek the help of other members, make a thread on the General Questions II forum.

So other than that general question (from Longhorn's pinned thread), how can we help you?