Poster named Jet needs help over on the Recovery Board.

His WW had a PA but hasn't disclosed full details, and is in withdrawal phase right now. Since my FWH didn't do a withdrawal phase, I'm not too good at helping with advice on this particular problem.

Can someone with this experience go over to Recovery and give him some advice?

Thanks!

Also, he has not exposed this affair - I've tried to get him to understand that this would help him a lot. WW has a BFF that enables her contact to OM, and although his WW has kept NC with OM, that BFF keeps WW in the loop regarding OM's life, etc. The WW knows BFF needs to go - but is having problems letting that friendship drop. BFF is also in an affair herself (I told Jet to expose BFF's affair to her husband!).

Jet needs help!

Thanks,
SB