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i posted this in the recovery thread but thought i would get more replies here...
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hello strangers...
any advice on how not to be too sickly... i'm 2 years past dday (aug'05) and been on and off with sickness related to stress...
marriage is ok so far, but it seems that i have so many subconciously buried emotions within me that's causing system failure every now and then...
how do i get rid of them and focus if not enjoy my recovery days?
Suggestions please...
dday aug 05
ds was 4 and dd was 3 months old when the A happened
he went home sept 05; stayed for 3 weeks and left us again for ow after 3 weeks
he left preggy ow end of oct 05 and stayed with us since then
we are no contact and recovering
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Are you in IC? If not, perhaps you should consider it. Have you been evaluated for depression? My suggestion is to get professional help. Do it for YOU.
BH - me 53, ONS 1979
FWW - 51, 2 EA's, 1 PA
Last D-Day, Sep. 30, 2003
Last Contact/recovery began 2-26-04
***You can do anything with time and money...but remember...money won't buy you time!***
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Stress does lower your immune response. Did your spouse answer all of your questions and start pitching in to help the marriage recover?
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