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After all the gut wrenching soul searching I was doing and today I find out he has been sleeping with some girl he met a few months back. Talk about a slap in the face. I was on the fence about our marriage and altough this makes it easier to make the decision to divorce--it is still so very painful and devastating.

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Okay, I'm sorry to hear this. You need to do some serious soul searching. You are now on Hubby #3, and even WITHOUT the affair, he doesn't seem to be such a great catch.

You must get some counseling to figure out why you tolerate so little from your men.

You are young, have a great future ahead, and need to get this problem in control. You need to realize that it is not about the LOSERS you have been married to, but about why you are choosing them.

It took me many years to realize that it was not just bad luck that I kept ending up with less than I deserved.


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