So where do I go from here folks? Add to the fact that she now has a boyfriend.<P>When pressed he said he would move out right away because it was the right thing to do.<P>But then he says we'll buy a new bed next weekend, he wants to build on us.<P>I don't know how he feels about her (is the depth, etc) but I know he doesn't want to have sex with me.<P>I accused him of staying with me for financial reasons.<P>I said we're in the same boat, both of us have our hearts broken.<P>Oh yeah, I got the old line. When I asked him why he didn't tell me (I pesterd him with questions which he basically said Yes or No to) he said "Because I care about you and don't want to hurt you".<P>If I knew this was the end for them and he was going thru withdrawal and there may be a bright future for us I could do this, afterall I've been doing it for 2 years.<P>But Love? How can I compete with that. "I love you too, I never said I love her more than you, you said that". Aarrghh!<P>And my first mammogram today, and somebody told me it will hurt (!) and I won't be able to come back to work.<P>Boy it sure is a Monday.<P><BR>

From experience, I can say don't expect that her having a boyfriend will have much of an effect. If she had morals, she wouldn't be with your H...and she probably can't sustain a regular relationship.<P>My H's OW is currently dating his housemate, and this is at least her 3rd relationship since she's been with my H. Ick.<P>------------------<BR>Lor<BR>"Do not get tired of doing what is right, for after awhile you will reap a harvest of blessings if you do not get discouraged and give up. (Gal 6:9)<P><BR>