Aaaargh!
Last week was DDay. OW's H contacted me and provided me with proof of a EA/PA and that was that. I threw WH out. I've been struggling with him on this issue with his "friendship" with this woman for five years, and he's gone so far to call me mentally unstable to our friends. And the lies, oh, the lies.
Well, I heard through the grapevine that he's telling people at his workplace that he has been unhappy in our marriage for years, and after our last round of counseling, he realized that our marriage is over. So, he says HE left ME on Monday. He is telling people that, as everyone has noticed, he's been friends with OW for several years. He claims that while there have been feelings between them, they never acted upon them. But now that she's kicked her husband out of the house and they're both free, they had their "first date" on Sunday.
MORE LIES!
They have been messing around in their workplace, behind closed doors, for months! They've been constantly text messaging, emailing, going hiking during work hours, and sharing "I love you's" for weeks!
And furthermore, it flabbergasts me that he thinks that people will think it's OK with him "dating" someone else a week after we have separated. After 15 years of marriage, no one would find him to be a bit of cad. He is telling people that they are exploring this relationship, and don't know where it's headed.
Bull crap. He told me that he wants to have babies with her.
I'm so pissed.
