This is my first post tho I've been reading a lot of the messages.

My story...
My WH told me two weeks ago that he has been having an EA with our neighbor. Mostly talking on the phone many times a day. He swears nothing physical but I'm having a hard time believing it. OW is also married and her BS knows about the A. This has come as such a shock to me. We have been married for two years but together for 7. This is a second marriage for both of us. My first H was a cheater for most of our 10 yr marriage tho I didn't know until the end of it.
One of the things I loved most about my WH was his honesty, in everything. He hates lies and I can truly say that in the 7 yrs we've been together I never once caught him in a lie until now. The worst part is he lied right to my face when I first confronted him with my suspicions about the OW. It was a week before he finally confessed.
So, they have agreed on NC, both couples are working on our marriages. Problem is, we are neighbors, we can see into eachothers kitchens, yards are back to back. Moving is not an option right now, we all have kids.
How can we possibly get trough this with the constant reminder of the OW out our window?

Welcome. Someone needs to move. You say it is not an option, but is divorce an option? If you stay, you take the chance that the affair will go physical.