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wife says she is done
#1947559 09/28/07 08:45 AM
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been married 19 years, wife told me she loved me but was not romantically in love with me. says she has been living a lie for many years. was really never sexually attracted but loved me in other ways. says she doesnt think mc will do any good but is willing to go. my heart is broken. is it to late? i need advise.

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You might try moving this thread to the GQ II area where there is more activity.
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Go alone first and work on your stuff. Who knows? She may see a different you, and have a change of heart.

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As a wife who just told her husband kind of the same thing (that i wasn't in love anymore). I used to be sexually attracted to him, but some things have happened with him, sexually, that i feel i am holding resentments against him (subconciously) and make anything in the bedroom feel like a chore. H actually agreed to MC, but I almost feel as though he needs to "date me" again, so to speak, or we need to rekindle the spark because the passion is G O N E to me. Show her a good time, show her what made her fall in love with you. That's what I am hoping my H will do..

MW MLC MOW, WW, PA, EA Married 14 years together since high school 2 kids (10 & 7) 33 years old, hubby 34

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