Starting a new thread because of update to situation. To bring you up to date, my husband moved back home after a year long seperation. He has been home since the end of June. As I've said before he seems a bit guarded at times and other times like my old husband. He was still working with OW up until last week. He finally got another job and this will be his second week. Anyway, I found a card from OW which was pretty deep. WS said the card was old and he left it in a binder at work. When he cleaned out his office the binder came home and I found it. The card did sound as if it was over between them but I could definately tell she would have probably left her husband for him. I believe now that it was my husband that ended it. So what am I suppose to do now. I've said to myself that he returned home and got another job and that it appears that if he wanted to continue a relationship with her he would/could have. So do I forget the card? What should I expect now? Will he become withdrawn? or is that part kinda over since he's been home 3 months. I just want to know what to expect.