Well, I am all moved out to the apt. What a painful experience that was to leave the house I loved and know that it's because I made so many mistakes in my marriage, financial being one of them.
My boys are having a hard time adjusting, but I am working hard at building this into our new home.
Last week WH brought the OW to my house when it looked like a bomb had gone off in it. That hurt deeply because I had asked him not to bring her near my house. Sometimes I can't believe how much they try and hurt you. He told me how he gave me everything he had. Is that babble talk? Earlier in the week he said that he waited as long as he could. More babble talk? How do I respond to him when he says those things?
On Sunday, WH called my youngest son to meet him and get a birthday card for my middle son. WH reminded YS that he was involved in a lacrosse tournament this coming weekend and wanted to know if we would be coming. My son thought that WH was inviting us both. Since I would need to be the one to drive him there.
Tonight, I got an email from WH telling me he wants "his camera" because he has a tournament and he wants to take pictures of himself. So he wants to know when he can come and get it.
He has not once mentioned to me about me coming to the tournament and keeps asking my son if he is coming. I do not want my son around OW and I don't want my WH to think that I am going to tolerate that at all or support his stupid destruction. I would absolutely be destroyed to be somewhere where she is with him, especially when people know he is married to me and they know me. And be being the outsider.
I have no idea how to proceed if I am in Plan A. I personally want to go to the tournament if she isn't going to be there. Can someone remind me if they really do mean to hurt you or he just is doing it b/c of the fog and it really will clear one day. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
What should I do?
Thanks,
SG
