[color:"red"] [/color] I am going through a divorce right now. My wife and I have only been married for 10 months and she has moved out and back into her parents home. I want her back... and I love her dearly. I made some mistakes but I did not commit adultery or abouse her in any way. She will not talk to me...she wants me to move on with my life. And she says that the reason that we are not together is me.

I saw her this past Sunday at church I was talking to her brother...when she saw me she gave me a huge smile and waved for a nice period of time. It was the first time that I felt her warmth in the 2 1/2 months we have been seperated. I miss her sooo much. I told her that I have been working on myself to become a better husband and hopefully one day a great father. BUt she says that she doesn't want it. SHe is going through full speed through the divorce. I texted her a few days ago to see how she was doing she spoke briefly and said she was busy but I would be hearing from her soon. I don't know what that meant and it has been driving me crazy. Is there any hope for us to make it. I want this to work more than anything.

Please someone help me!!!


AWB II

You can only help yourself. If you are both church people, have you spoken to the pastor? Divorce is not taken lightly, and certainly not without pastoral counseling.

You will need to find ways to show her how you've changed.