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Can Plan A work?
#1953888 10/13/07 12:53 PM
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When I found out about the affair about two weeks ago, I panicked and left the house. I was so devastated that I was going to just run to New York from Texas and leave everything behind. I quit my job and made plans to leave.

After a few days, I realized that running would be the worst thing I could do. I called my boss, got my job back, and started praying that I could save my marriage.

I am staying with a friend now, so can Plan A work? I don't want to lose my husband, and I am very afraid. He contacts me to talk about bills and stuff like that, and I always try to sound calm and collected on the phone.

I need a Plan A or B, or something that will reconcile our marriage. I feel in my heart that we can get past this, but need some advice on where to begin.

So I let you go and I watch you leave and I hold my breath so you don't hear me scream, when you walk away
Re: Can Plan A work?
CJL67 #1953889 10/14/07 06:50 PM
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since you do want to save your marriage, move back home now.
also, that is your home too, do not give it up.
once you are home a plan A can go into effect, I don't believe it works as well if you are moved out. I am not sure about that.
hopefully one of the veterans will hop on board and help you out.
one of the best things you can do on this site is tell your story if you have not already.
Tell your story on either the "just found out" forum or in the Questions forum.

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