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Hey,
OK, I'm not married. Not really even close to the age. I'm a teen but I figured you guys could help. My girlfriend and I have been dating juuust about 1 year. I KNOW I want to stay with her, but "normal" teen stuff is getting in the way for me. We eventually started to do stuff we probably shouldn't have done. I won't have sex, but anything else I would have considered "fair game." After a while, I feel into some pretty heavy depression. I've been on meds and seeing a phsycologist ever since. But anyways, she's since changed her mind on how she feels about that stuff, and feels we should no longer be doing that stuff. Well for me...being a teen, and seeing what it's like. Have sortof got addicted...bad. It's gotten way out of hand. I can't seem to stop asking for things. I've became so addicted that I have developed a very strong feeling for that stuff, and so it's been incredibly hard to stop. Well recently, I decided we should take a break from each other for a while because I couldn't stop. It's just hard, because I've seen "the other side" and what it's like, and quite frankly...I like it. So it's really hard to stop. Well even now, on our break, I can't stop thinking about that kind of stuff with her. She has a great upper body, and I can't seem to stop thinking about it. BUT I WANT TO BAD!! I need some help getting over this addiction. I would give ANYTHING...if we could magically be happy together. I would give up my car, computer...ANYTHING. I want to be with her SOOO bad but it's just really hard to hang in there right now. I need LOTS of advice. Help me out. Thanks.

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should I move this to another topic in the forum?

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Hi ohgolly434

I suggest that you move it to general questions II as it seems more people read and respond there. I think you could just cut and paste.

I am sure somebody with understanding of what you are going through will be able to help you. Hang in there.

M.

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Cold showers perhaps?

Regardless of your religious beliefs on sexual activity, according to the law, anything that is NOT between consenting adults is sexual assualt (read: rape). In other words, if she doesn't want it, don't do it. It doesn't have to be actual intercourse to fit this definition. If you can't keep your hands off her, stay away from her. Limit your activities together to things that don't arouse you too much.


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