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#1957535 10/20/07 03:22 PM
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To all who may have wondered about my absence...

I'm doing MARVELOUS...

I decided I needed to FOCUS MY MIND on who MY H is to ME NOW..and not who he WAS...

He REALLY is a DIFFERENT PERSON...

There WAS lots of talk about how the WS may not be able to CHANGE...my H MOST DEFINITELY has changed...

And MOST IMPORTANTLY, so HAVE I...

I need to keep MY FOCUS on THE NOW...so as not to QUESTION the REALNESS of the WONDERFULNESS of OUR LIVES....

Love ya...

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I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
mimi_here #1957536 10/20/07 04:34 PM
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Howdy Mimi!! I have missed you muchly! I am glad to hear you are doing well, my dear friend. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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MelodyLane #1957537 10/20/07 07:22 PM
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hi Mimi ~ you are right, they can and do change! Glad you are doing well!


~ Pain is a given, misery is optional ~
BrambleRose #1957538 10/20/07 07:31 PM
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Well hi there Mimi!!! I've been wondering where ya been!!! Glad to hear all is peachy keen...<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Mrs. W


FWW ~ 47 ~ Me
FBH ~ 50 ~ MrWondering
DD ~ 17
Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered

MrsWondering #1957539 10/21/07 01:21 AM
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Hey Mimi!

So glad to hear you are doing so well, I am so there too! Life has been much better for my H and me!!!

We are not completely there yet, but close!!! Much has happened, a big move a year ago to the 'eastside' of the state, however, it has been the healthiest and best thing for our M.

Have not looked a MB for a looong time, but when I did, there you are with the awesome news!!

Lovely to hear how much you and H have changed for the best, and have truely recovered. Your story is really a MB success, and an inspiration to all who come here.

You ROCK!!!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

God Bless

Love in Christ,
Miss M


me: FBS
H: FWS
Fully recovered
Miss M #1957540 10/22/07 05:36 AM
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Mimi,

Just when I begin to worry,,,,,,

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I need to keep MY FOCUS on THE NOW...so as not to QUESTION the REALNESS of the WONDERFULNESS of OUR LIVES....


I am OH SO happy to get this report!

Love ya!
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ExWS -Drac
DD 9
DSS 15
D Day 11/06
Divorced 10/01/07

"You Can't Fix Stupid" - My Mom
Bugsmom #1957541 10/22/07 07:11 AM
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I am very happy for you, Mimi! Thanks for hanging around as long as you have.


Me-BS-38
Married 1997; son, 8yo
Divorced April 2009
mimi_here #1957542 10/22/07 08:04 AM
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Hi Mimi!

Good to hear things are marvelous with you!


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I need to keep MY FOCUS on THE NOW...so as not to QUESTION the REALNESS of the WONDERFULNESS of OUR LIVES....

It IS important to remember your own marriage amidst the desire to help others.

TODAY is all the Lord has given us to "worry" about. One day at a time, doing what is needed for the day, and the future will be a better "today" before you know it!!


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(((((mimi))))) Back at 'cha!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

God bless.

ForeverHers #1957543 10/22/07 10:05 AM
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((((Mimi)))))

I had no doubt you were rocking your life, (our divine MsM)...knowing you are in balance, have focus and living abundantly warms my heart, re-ignites my faith.

For all you have shared here (anyone can look up your threads and learn), thank you very much.

Love and hugs....

LA

LovingAnyway #1957544 10/22/07 10:08 AM
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Mimi,

Thanks for coming back. I've always valued your advice.


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