Hi 2ideal-

I got the same reaction when I first posted about my husband's infidelity. (We weren't married- what's the big deal??)

The big deal was in keeping a secret from me, which influenced my entire married life. Perhaps you can relate to that feeling.

You can leave the boards, or you can stay and move to a different section such as emotional needs (I think openness and honesty are high on your list, huh?). I've checked out lots of marriage/relationship forums and I think the Harley method makes a lot of sense. There are several people who hang out on the emotional needs board that are amazing (mychae, star*fish and MrAlias are a few).

Best of luck to you-
~Saturn


Me: 45
Him: 47
married 23 years
Two wonderful sons
D-day for my EA: 8/15/04
D-day for his PAs: 8/16/06