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I am agonizing over this.
Am going through a divorce and recently learned that my wife has been having an ongoing relationship with a married man with children.
We have separated and have our residences.
However, I am aware that this affair has continued.
As my wife has an STD and witnessing how my own news was deleievered to me, I suspect that this guy is now hiding assetss. I am strongly considering telling the OP's wife in an effort for her to protect herself, both physically and financially.
Anyone have words of advice?
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Absolutely you should tell her. Let me ask you this - what possible reason is there NOT to tell her? Would you not appreciate being told if it were you?
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You should have ratted the scumbag out the first instant you found out.
TELL HER NOW!
I watch, and am as a sparrow alone upon the house top.
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YES. She deserves to know this thing that is impacting her life. Why have you waited so long?
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Yes...lest you become her co-conspirator.
It's the humane thing to do.
Mr. Wondering
FBH(me)-51 FWW-49 (MrsWondering)
DD19 DS 22 Dday-2005-Recovered
"agree to disagree" = Used when one wants to reject the objective reality of the situation and hopefully replace it with their own.
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Oh, yes.
And, if they work together, the employer needs to know. The folks over on the Infidelity board - especially in General Questions II - can help you with that.
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