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I can't find it. Did you spell it wrong? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Also, that really good Plan A thread you had. There's poster out there that has lots of Plan A questions. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
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I'm not Ark^^, but I've got the link. I printed this post out and read it often. It helped me through MANY of my darkest days. It is in my "favorites" Link to "Lighthouse" Fox ETA: A post from star*fish about fear was very helpful also. Link to It's the Fear
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Thank you! I used to read it often too. I lost so many of Ark's great posts when my computer crashed. She wrote an awesome one regarding SF and teens I wish I still had.
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Yes, I have LOTS of plan A questions... I'm in a "fog" on how to apply plan A.
Please help!
I did a search for those threads and couldn't find them.
FWS (me): 38 (EA in May-June 2007)
FWS (H): 35 (EA from oct 2005 to oct 2007)
DS1: 7
DS2: 3.5
S decided he wanted a separation: October 5th 2007
S moved out: October 12th 2007
S moved back in: November 10th
We are working together, one day at a time, one step at a time to build a love that will last forever. Thanks to MB.
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mbm69, click on the blue font in my post. It will take you directly to the posts mentioned.
Unfortunately, I don't have the Plan A posts that weaver is talking about.
I'd love to take a look at the one on teens and SF. Mine are 13 and 14 and I'd like to be ahead of them on this one!
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I'd love to take a look at the one on teens and SF. Mine are 13 and 14 and I'd like to be ahead of them on this one! Mine is 13, and although we've managed to keep the channels of communication and discussion on SF open with her, I still worry. Ark wrote a second one that I may be able to find in a search. I'll try here shortly to find it.
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FWS (me): 38 (EA in May-June 2007)
FWS (H): 35 (EA from oct 2005 to oct 2007)
DS1: 7
DS2: 3.5
S decided he wanted a separation: October 5th 2007
S moved out: October 12th 2007
S moved back in: November 10th
We are working together, one day at a time, one step at a time to build a love that will last forever. Thanks to MB.
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Thanks, weaver, that would be great. It's almost scary watching them grow up right before my eyes.
DD13 had a Halloween party on Saturday night. She was using my phone to text a friend about costumes, etc because the phone WH got for her had text disabled. Anyway, I was clearing off old texts to make room for more and saw a text from the girl holding the party. They were talking about costumes and this girl was telling DD13 that she should be a "sexy" one.
YIPES! "SEXY" and my DD13 DO NOT go together! DD13 ended up being a prom queen....rather than the "sexy" bee she wanted to order off the internet. She was absolutely beautiful but not sexy!
mbm69, you're welcome. I hope they help.
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