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I'm torn, I really want to inform this woman that my soon to be ex has been aving an affair with his wife.

What is the best way to do this?

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I am new to this, but I would guess.

Certified Letter, or face to face.

Ryan.

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Assuming you know the phone number, address, or whatever, call or knock on her door. Then take a deep breath and launch into a description of what has been going on behind her back. Don't wait for the best time, the best day, or wait until the perfect words come to you, because none of the above will ever happen.

To borrow a few words from the commercial, "Just do it!" Believe me, once you get started, the conversation will take on a life of its own and you won't have to worry about what to say.

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I sent several certified letters until I could get enough info to actually speak with OMW and arrange a face to face meeting!

OMW was very anxious to meet and compare info!


BS(Me) - 47
Ex-W - 44
D final - Dec 08
Kids - 14s,13d,8d

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