I have been married for about 7 months and we have known each other for about a year and a half, we used to have such a good relationship, my second wife, I was married to my first wife for over twenty years.
I suspscted that she was having an affair about three months ago, new panties, all of a sudden she was sprinkling powder on our bed, she never slept with her underwaer on and now all of sudden she was, she would argue about sex but now she barely wants it from me.
So I planted a webcam and microphone in my bedroom and monitored her for about a month, well
I got audio of her talking to him in the shadows, I have his voice, I have footsteps in one room while she is in another, man this hurts to talk about I havent slept in over a month because of this.
On another occation he runs past the camera and uses the blinds to stop himself, she is four feet away from the window, they make love in my computer chair, I hear them kissing, moaning, he ejactulates, then she gets up and stands in front of the camera while he moves from my chair, he then goes into the bathrrom and starts the shower, the crazy thing is thathe stays all day , she thinks Im coming home, she stands and says My husband, my husband snd darts to the window.
On another occation, she calls him and tells him how long his %$%$* is, and that he's her baby, and t hat he come over becaue I have a microphine and that Im listening...
I prsented this to her, and she flat out denies all of it, calling me a spy, and tellimng me that I invaded her private time, she threatens me telling me Ihave to accept the fact that nothing happened and move on go to counciling.
Why if she wont admit that she is doing this, she is still seeing this man, and I dont know what to do, it is devastating to me...
I need help before I do something stupid, more stupid then I have been, please advise, suggestions anything....
Confused and hurt
ajnevman
