I want my marriage back, but not the infidelity. My husband has been having sexual relations with the mother of his 2 yr old on a regular basis since we moved in together in Jan. and were married in April until we separated in Sept. He swears he doesn't love her, doesn't know why he did it - she pursued him unmercifully - I know from the cell phone calls and text she sent (38 in one day). How will I ever know they aren't still having relations if I take him back? She has to be in our life for at least 16 more years! I know he loves me and I love him so, any good advice to save my marriage and rid it of her?