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Hi Mr. W,
Can you direct me to the link that you posted recently to "31 reasons to stop an affair?" I couldn't find it again.
thanks!!
BS - me 56
XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years
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Hi ChaiLover...I'm not Mr. W, but I am his other half, lol, so...Here's the link~~~> 31 Reasons To Stop An Affair Remember, it's not wise to give that document to an active wayward in an attempt to educate them...You are best served by leaving it lying around and letting them pick it up of their own volition... Good Luck, Mrs. W
FWW ~ 47 ~ MeFBH ~ 50 ~ MrWonderingDD ~ 17 Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered
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Thanks!! that is exactly what I am going to do. I'm going to leave it next to SAA and hope that it is picked up!!
BS - me 56
XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years
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Thanks!! that is exactly what I am going to do. I'm going to leave it next to SAA and hope that it is picked up!! I'll say a prayer for you about that CL...That particular document was the first thing that I read that made it through my own fog...SAA I picked up and began to read because I was so miserable in withdrawal that I was looking for anything that would make me feel better...And thankfully, it all eventually made it through and made sense to me... Mrs. W
FWW ~ 47 ~ MeFBH ~ 50 ~ MrWonderingDD ~ 17 Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered
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Leaving it in the bathroom might work...Seems that men tend to do a lot of reading in there...LOL! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
Mrs. W
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Thanks Mrs. W. This may be my only hope. He's here to get his stuff (see my thread) and I wanted to leave it where he could see it....
BS - me 56
XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years
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BTW, how did Mr. Wondering leave it around for you to find???
BS - me 56
XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years
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CL, On your thread Can this marriage be saved? you mentioned that your WH is coming today for his stuff. Did you put it with his stuff? Ace
FWH/BW (me)57+ M:36+ yr.
4 D-Days: Jun-Nov 06 E/PA~OW#2 (OW#1 2000)
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BTW, how did Mr. Wondering leave it around for you to find??? I made the unknowing mistake of giving it to her to read. She read very little of it and discarded it as a bunch of crap. However, it wasn't thrown away and remained "just sitting around". She then picked it up and read it in small chunks still not really loving the messages but seeds were planted which later blossomed. IF he is getting his stuff and leaving you may be best served stuffing it into his things as well as leaving a copy out for him to find. Just don't hand it to him. Mr. Wondering
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Ace, Mr. W,
I didn't put it with his stuff,(thought that was too obvious) but I put a little pile of books near the hallway with HNHN on top and the 31 reasons printout "spilling" out of it. Wanted it to look like I was in a hurry and threw the books down.
Hope it works....
BS - me 56
XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years
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