Hi, we have been married to each other for 6 years now and it has been wonderful. We now have 2 kids and are fighting for time to stay with each other (without the kids in the picture).
He has told me on many ocassions (in the past few years) that he has needs for SF, which I seldom respond to, only until now. I noticed that he started surfing those porn sites (on 2 occasions last week) and I felt very upset about it. I don't really know why men surf porn or did our lack of sex (we had it like 1/2 a week) made him surf such sites. He told me he got those links from the emails from 'one of those junk friends' and just clicked on them.
I confronted him and he told me that he would not surf such sites again (and I'm proud to say that he kept to it. For the past 2 weeks, there was no logging history on such sites - I had a keylogger installed since then).
Since that incident, I started reading alot about MB and tried to meet this EN of his. Now, we had it like 5/6 times (for the past week). But I don't know how long this 'solution' will last. If I fulfill such SF needs, will he then not surf such sites? Will H get tired of W if there is too much SF? Now, he's getting quite cuddley and would hug me when he sees me in the house (AND he expects at least a decent BJ even if there is no sex in the end) Husbands out there, what other signs do I look out for? He told me before that he had 'rendevous dreams' when his requests for quickies go unresponded, is that a sign too? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" /> I don't think he has any A or recorded EA with anyone, but I can't help to think that if I do not fulfill his SF needs, he might one day.
