All,

I have just had this odd feeling/realization run through me tonight, and I wanted to share it with you. It's because of you I just experienced this....

About 6 weeks ago I came here looking for help. I found more than I imagined I would. I tried very hard to be completely unbias in my posts for my issue(s) so that I could get the full realm of feedback.

I have learned a lot about myself, my marriage, and how my wife may think...

The past couple days/nights I haven't posted... I've been reading others' posts... and tonight I find myself replying to some. Then I realized, wow... I'm not GAINING advise this time... I'm GIVING advise. (hopefully useful to some extent) But the realization that in 6 weeks I've regained some control over my life, found focus again, and determination to LIVE instead of exist.... And the confidence to try to help others...

Anyway...
Thank you all (once again)
TOMK

TOMK,

Don't know if I have ever posted to you or not. But I wanted to say: "Welcome aboard". This site can and the people that come here can use your help and experience. I think you like me will learn more than you can imagine as you start to help others.

God Bless,

JL

I second all of the above!