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The allure of the temptation is so powerfully deceptive...how about hearing from former betrayers...who found out the hard way...it wasn't what you thought it would be...<BR>This can be quite beneficial to those who feel mysteriously pulled into a fantasy that awaits to devour.<BR>When did you "wake up"...what led you to see you "ate off the wrong tree"?

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Tman, I am not the betrayer but the betrayed but feel compelled to add to your subject. My H said he felt in a dream, a temptation that couldn't be ignored, that the awakening was the realization that I might have been lost to him. I often wonder myself what that "dream" state was like, I can not picture myself approaching this and I wish I understood it better myself! <P>------------------<BR>Chick's <BR>Bren<P>You won't see things until your ready to not be blind!<P><BR>

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Tman,<BR>I am not a betrayer either, but my W. says that her "friendship" started out as a need to talk to someone. She, I guess, felt that I'm not worth talking to. The messages that I heard from her to the OM suggested that she fell in love with him because they shared similar problems in their marriages. My feeling is that they should have shared their marital problems with their spouses, not each other. If it is a dream I hope that she wakes up soon, because I'm living the nightmare.<BR><P>------------------<BR><BR>That Which does not kill us makes us stronger.<BR>


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