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I've been dating this great guy for almost a year now. When we first met he told me he was divorced but a few months later I found out he was only seperated. He apologized for lying and said he was waiting for his wife to finalize the divorce. A few months later I found out she had been trying to get back with him and she claims they were intimate on several occassions and he was talking about reconciliation also. He denies any of that. They were finally divorced a few months ago but I know she still wants him back. They have young children and she was his second wife. I really love and want to marry him. I am right to continue with this relationship? Can it really work?
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Joined: Apr 2006
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I think you should let this guy go. Here's why:
1. He lied to you about being divorced vs separated.
2. He will be saddled with child support for their kids together for the next N years, taking finances out of whatever household you two might build together, and away from whatever kids you might have together.
3. His XW will constantly be "working" on him, and with the kids will have constant reason to be in contact with him.
4. This was his second divorce. Maybe he's not cut out for marriage?
I say release this one and find someone else.
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