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My husband cheated on me 2.5 years ago and ever since ive been trying to trust him again... we have 3 kids, married 14 years and I love him... but he just told me that he isnt sure he loves me... I am so desperate for my children to have an intact family Ive told him we could co exist...

His dad is sick with cancer and his job is very hard we are under lots of financial debt stress...

I feel like I am losing my mind, but I love my family so much I am willing to do anything to keep it together... am I crazy???[color:"black"] [/color]

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Chrisr,

It sounds like 1) your marriage has not started recovering even 2.5 years following his affair, 2) he is having another affair, or 3) the affair never ended or has resumed.

Please read here to get as much information as possible and start snooping to find out what's going on. You can start a good plan A immediately, but you do need to find out if he is involved with someone else.

Who


I am the BW,
He is the FWH
D-Day: 12/02/03

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