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curling????????

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I do, we get to watch the pros for real cheap durring the summer time. Once the 'pro' season is over, they join a sunner league, it's all the same guys but on different teams, and instead of$25 a ticket it $8. Love the sport, but haven't played since High School.


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My kids play it. We are gearing up for regular season in another month.

What pros do you get to watch? What position did you play?


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45pound granite rocks on ice. Kind of like shuffleboard ecect the ice has the effect of making the rocks turn 'curl' so you can hid behind other rocks and not havce yours knocked out.


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The Toronto Rock, Major League Lacrosse. There are only 8 teams and the closest on to you would be Calgary.
I used to play defence... Long arms and a good eye.

B - Curling is as big as hockey here in Canada. If you take a ride through little prairie villages you'll see three things... A Church, a Hockey arena and a Curling Club. It's really what golfers do on the off season. There are pros that their stated profession is Golf Pro.


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Oh, didn't realize that you are from Canada.

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Me either for that matter.


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Southwestern Ontario. About 2 hrs from Detroit, 1 hr north of Niagara falls and Buffalo.


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What kind of time zone are you in? Are you originally from there?


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I'm in the eastern time zone. (11:43AM). I'm originally from a little town in northern New Brunswick (Good old French Canadian Boy), but grew up not far from Toronto.


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Queenie:

I'm doing WELL...

Working on your apt. today?

You also can DREAM and LEARN to occupy your time.

Any special topic that you have interest in that you want to know more about?

Try to FILL up YOUR MIND with STUFF other than your WH...hard to do, I know...


I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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Not yet, I have been on and off of here and laying in bed. I'm sore from running yesterday. Second guessing that I didn't go to his soccer game instead of cleaning the apt.

I'll start working on my bdrm as soon as 10:00. I am watching the football coverage of the Redskins.

DREAM? That is so weird, I realized earlier this week that I had NO DREAMS. I talked to my business associate about helping me with that. She is working with me in building up self-esteem. And starting by having me read The Greatest Miracle in the World by Og Mandino.

Studying to be a rabbi is something that has always interested me and in order to do that I HAVE to learn fluent Hebrew. I could check online for a class and do that. The lacrosse coach approached me about becoming a coach for the girls team.

Sadly, when something interested me I just went out and learned it or taught myself about it. I can't get passed it was that person who lost my H. And that's why I fight this so. See what I mean? How can I change my thinking?


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Reading THE GREATEST SALESMAN

Studying Hebrew

Lacrosse Coach....

ALL SOUND GREAT!!! Keep going forward to find what works FOR YOU...

ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE IF YOU BELIEVE!!!


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ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE IF I BELIEVE!!! And I TRUST G-d.

And I just walk ONE STEP AT A TIME.

AND DON'T GIVE UP.

HEAD UP, CHEST OUT.... SHOWS OVER, COFFEES MADE, TIME TO CLEAN..

YES, The Greatest Salesman and the scrolls are NEXT.


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Half Time, Redskins winning. Yeah....

Sorry PM and Serenity. But I NEED this.

They are truly one of the deepest joys in my life.


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Ok, there is NO ONE here who cares that my Skins are winning. I want to share it with my friends.

My bedroom is almost done Mimi, and there is much space that is wide open for my H to come home. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

And I am putting the quilt top that I made for us on my bed as the bed spread.

Anything else you think I could be missing?


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Oh, skinsgal, I'm glad theu are winning, and I HATE football. But I want them to win for you.

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Oh thank you B,

I really love this team so much.


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Mimi,

I had a MOMENT. A MOMENT where I realized that even though my WH is in an active addiction and pretty much out of control. He is a recovering addict who is living in a dry drunk, and is making certain choices.

HE IS A FOOL IF HE STAYS AWAY FOREVER.

I still have so much work to do, but that is my Plan A accomplishment for the day. I realized that I am an incredible amazing woman who was sick and just needed her H to stand by me while I got well.

He couldn't do it because whether he wants to admit it or not, he is sick and I will stand by him.

I am taking this very moment and realizing and owning that one day, one day I will be healed, and I don't know what my life will be like, but it will be a life that I created by myself for myself and children.

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I love you Mimi, you are someone that is a TRUE BLESSING in my life. Thank you.


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I am taking this very moment and realizing and owning that one day, one day I will be healed, and I don't know what my life will be like, but it will be a life that I created by myself for myself and children.


And I am sharing this MOMENT IN TIME with you...SMILING AND APPLAUDING..write your affirmation down so you can read it over and over again...

I love you, too, Queenie!!

Something WONDERFUL just happened. I want to wake my H up and tell him but I won't, I'll wait until in the morning.

Without going into detail, my YS just texted me and BASICALLY told me how happy he is about how his relationship with his father. They talked on the phone today, making amends with each other. Isn't that such a BLESSING on this day, hours before the D-Day anniversary.

God is GREAT and GOOD, Queenie. ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE..because that night I thought my life was over..I wanted to die.


I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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