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"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Thanks for all of you for the support. Justuss has fixed the problem.
I don't know what Justuss did, but I trust that we won't see that poster around much anymore.
Somehow, I think someone else will also disappear along with BA. And I won't miss the other one either.
As for me signing off, yes, I'm still doing that. But that doesn't mean I'm gone forever. Of course I have to read and check in. I just need to move ahead in my world.
The affair took its toll on our marriage. Cancer took its toll on our lives together. We have weathered two long difficult years together, and we are falling in love again.
This website had so much to do with that. I am forever indebted to Marriage Builders. I have sent countless friends here.
That being said, there is also a time when one must acknowledge that moving forward and changing the focus is the next best step. For me, that time is now. We think about what we talk about, and talk about what we think about. My husband and I are talking and thinking about new things now, about our future, and loving.
We are talking of recovery. Of what we are doing today, and tomorrow. We know that the mistakes we both made yesterday will not be forgotten, and that they put us into the position we are in today - and somehow that turmoil led us to forge a new marriage, a better marriage. We both wish that we knew then what we know now. But we didn't. Yet, from the pain and devastation a phoenix has risen, and now we are riding the wings of that bird.
So coming here every day is no longer what I need. I need
him.
Us.
Because it is what Marriage Builders has made for me -
A new marriage, a happy place to be.
And I don't want to miss any of it.
So while I say "good-bye", of course I will check in. Because maybe I can help sometimes. Or maybe I need a booster shot.
Or maybe I miss old friends.
And just maybe that one time I check in, I can tell my story to the one person who needs to hear it. That you CAN rebuild after infidelity. You CAN get off that rollercoaster ride, and it DOES come to an end.
You CAN fall in love again.
I did.
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Bye, schoolbus, I will miss you terribly, good friend! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/teary.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I will miss you bunches schoolbus...I've long enjoyed reading your posts...I'll look forward to seeing you drop by from time to time...So glad to have "known" you and have heard your very inspirational story...Take care of you! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Mrs. W
FWW ~ 47 ~ MeFBH ~ 50 ~ MrWonderingDD ~ 17 Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered
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hey,
school bus, Catch you on the flip side. You'll come back now and then, I'm sure. I look forward to those times as your posts are always worthwhile.
Till then----Hey-- and my very best to you and the mister. It gives me good cheer to know that you and he are doing well together.
Lake
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FWH-54
H had EA 3 weeks 06
Married 1977
N C 4-10-06
3 DSs
In Recovery
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Mel = BA? HA HA HA!!! That kind of imagination only comes from one place..... the mothership! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> BA's hair (whatever there is of it.....) couldn't hold all the hairspray Mel uses..... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Seems these critters have been reaching waaay down in their pants to pull up this kind of [email]cr@p.[/email] <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> So in our traditional MB way..... we just <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Just goes to prove that those from the mothership has rocks for brains! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> L.
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Orchid, I believe that BestAdvisor took a ride on the ShortBus right on outta here. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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So SB, I guess that makes you one of the "mythical" recovered marriages, lol. (I am one too, but don't feel that I am a myth, more of a mythuth, really. Ohhhhhh. Nothing like a bad pun so early on a Sunday morning.)
Have a splendid life, and when you check in, believe me we'll have no trouble recognizing that it is you.
And 3 cheers again for our hero JustUss!!!!!!!!
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
~ English proverb Neak's Story
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It seems that MelodyLane has appeared about the same time BestAdvisor dissappeared. Who's schoolbus2? Is that the same person as MelodyLane? BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! This is a joke, right? BA1, you have GOT to be kidding. I just cannot believe that you have nothing better to do with your time than to harass people around here. Get a life, BA... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
Me,BW - 42; FWH-46 4 kids D-Day #s1 and 2~May 2006 D-Day #3~Feb.27, 2007 (we'd been in a FR) Plan B~ March 3 ~ April 6, 2007 In Recovery and things are improving every day. MB rocks. 
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BA1, If Mel is a schoolbus, You had better hope the heck you're not standing in the middle of the road when she comes roaring through your neigborhood. (ROTHFLMAO) <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> All Blessings, Jerry PS: Mel, the next time you decide to excuse yourself from this forum, you had better raise your hand and ask for permission to do so. How rude <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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BA1, If Mel is a schoolbus, You had better hope the heck you're not standing in the middle of the road when she comes roaring through your neigborhood. (ROTHFLMAO) <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> bwhahahahahhahhaaaa Good one, Jer! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> I promise I will ask permission next time! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Nah Jerry - Mel wouldn't be dumb enough to post a "Goodbye Cruel World" thread...... AGAIN.
ROTFLMAO
Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
Fully Recovered.
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shaddup, you silly foreigner! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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See? You don't see me at the same time as Mel.
Curious...
Last edited by Neakbusshortneak; 11/18/07 07:12 PM.
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
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see? you dont see me at the same time as mel.
curious...... Neak, you little poser!! ROFL! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Busted, I admit it!
Now, after I go back and edit the deliberate misspelling and lack of proper punctuation, will you please go and do the same to your quote so the circuits of my brain do not misfire any more than they have?
Much appreciated.
Neakbus
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Shortneak
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
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