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you do understand that your ex has god given free will and may choose to exorcise that free will in disobedience to god until the day he dies... that could be a veryyyyyy long. you are willing to be alone til the day he dies?
he is married to someone else now. if you had sex with him you don't think that would wrong? you don't think THAT is adultery? i think that is you being no better than he is. if you want your husband back, more power to you. pray for him every day, pray that his heart would hear the whisper of god again and when and IF he does, and he ends his new marriage, then i would pursue him. but you don't want him the way he is now anyway.
god can do anything that is in his will in HIS timing and HIS way. do you really think his way would be for you to have sex with a man who is now married to someone else? 2 wrongs do NOT make a right.
i am not knocking you. you are free to follow whatever path you wish. i'd just be careful telling others on this board, many of us christians, that god would not bless a second marriage to us when we left our marriages due to infidelity which god hates and allows us an out in our marriages because he hates it so much. maybe you believe god would not bless another marriage FOR YOU, that's fine, that's your belief. where in the bible does it say that if someone remarries after they have left their marriage due to adultery that god will not bless it? i am curious.
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It isn't a marriage I'm going to break up.... it's an adulterous affair I intend to end with reconciliation in God's perfect wil and restoration of true covenant relationship.
cya I can smell the restraining order from here.
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Holy cow, back, you sure do cuss a lot for a born-again.
Anyway, uh...all I can say is have you looked into a good psychiatrist? You might want to. Bounce your ideas off of her, and see what she says.
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I give the man one look.... he will lose all control to steer his own ship. He'll follow me like I'm the pied piper. Well, if that's the kind of "man" he is, it sounds like you are better off letting the POA have him. That would be the best revenge, IMO. AGG
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back, you have ALOT to learn about men.
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we have troll's here....I thought they only lurked in other threads.....geez. surviving in the wake... or churning up things and making waves? namecalling... well, those who take cheap shots usually do lack good vision... and accurate aim. ya missed me! lol define troll... and see if you've defined your actions in taking cheap shots at innocent people. Actually before you make A$$umptions.....I was really questioning if we have them here because they never usually bother us here....usually they haunt the general questions board......don't go there with me. If I was actually taking "cheap shots" or "aiming" at you, you would know....because I don't miss. Your reading into an actual question the wrong way. who called who a troll, blank? i gotta name for you I won't say here and now.. don't give me your "assume" pile... don't jump on a thread with a new person calling names and pretend to be innocent. either be constructive... or find someone else to throw names at. or just plain shut up. First off look back in the freaking thread I didn't call you a damn troll....all I did was question if we had them here...pariah called you a troll....get it right before being defensive and jumping to conclusions...
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ok this thread made a left at albuquerque
since i posted last i've learned that
- WH is now married to OW
- It wasn't his fault... the devil did it
- And Back is gonna go get her man Loretta Lynn style
who is bringing the popcorn?
i could think of a few country tunes that are relavant
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Popcorn?
How 'bout a box of TrollSnax!
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pondering... Plan A or Plan B... the OW he has now married... I will refer to as POA (piece of ***). Lordwilling, I believe this BS would most enjoy playing "OW" to what they think is marriage...
Yeah, I'll sleep with the ex given the opportunity... while he's still married to the POA.
Turnabout is fair play... and all's fair in love and war.
I don't think I'll play the wife role in this... and see how the POA OW likes that.
I know I'll enjoy it.
I think I'll flirt and go for it. I don't need the traditional route. Hmmm, and eye for eye, huh? *scratches head* Have you run this plan by your Pastor/Clergy/Spiritual Advisor? I'm curious as to what they would advise.... You feel justified, b/c you are bathed in the All Mighty's Glory, because your original union is "holy", yet what you propose is Adultery. Plain and simple. No if's and's or but's about it Back. Adultery. You know it. I know it. We all know it. No amount of religious or spiritual justifcation will change that fact. Just like when those religious fanatics who murder doctors who perform abortions all in the name of God, are still MURDERERS. Not comparing you to a murderer m'dear, just sayin' that no amount of religious babble will justify murder. Just like it doesn't adultery. Don't mean to be harsh. Not my intent. You like to say it like it is, so do I. And I agree a bit w/ catperson.....for someone so centered in the love of God and the holy spirit, you seem very defensive and angry and lash out very harshly. Why? Why not simply ignore the posters who offend you? Turn the other cheek and whatnot?
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Re-married 7/09!
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[quote][quote]we have troll's here....I thought they only lurked in other threads.....geez. surviving in the wake... or churning up things and making waves? namecalling... well, those who take cheap shots usually do lack good vision... and accurate aim. ya missed me! lol define troll... and see if you've defined your actions in taking cheap shots at innocent people. Actually before you make A$$umptions.....I was really questioning if we have them here because they never usually bother us here....usually they haunt the general questions board......don't go there with me. If I was actually taking "cheap shots" or "aiming" at you, you would know....because I don't miss. Your reading into an actual question the wrong way. who called who a troll, blank? i gotta name for you I won't say here and now.. don't give me your "assume" pile... don't jump on a thread with a new person calling names and pretend to be innocent. either be constructive... or find someone else to throw names at. or just plain shut up. First off look back in the freaking thread I didn't call you a damn troll....all I did was question if we had them here...pariah called you a troll....get it right before being defensive and jumping to conclusions... [/quote] get off the thread please. you have nothing to add... just re-spinning the same justifications for your behavior. you have too much time on your hands if you can't apologize and just need to keep rehashing a perspective... about nothing of value you interjected in the first place. [/quote] Hahaha....how can I be positive or add anything of value when you haul off in a tangent about something stupid pointing fingers.....I'm not apologizing when I did NOTHING WRONG.....would you like me to call you a troll so then you can be justified? I haven't yet but if you would like me to I can. You have issues woman....do you always blame random people for not doing things....I can see it now: Back walking up the street: Hey lady your walking on the side walk. DAMNIT LADY YOUR FREAKING WALKING ON THE SIDE WALK. WHY ARE YOU WALKING ON THE SIDE WALK. YOUR WRONG FOR WALKING ON THE SIDEWALK. Lady : ...uuuhhh....what? I thought it was the law for pedestrians to walk on the side walk....I am confused Back: DAMNIT YOU SUCK YOU HORRIBLE LADY. DON'T WALK ON THE SIDE WALK GET OFF THE SIDEWALK.... Lady: now hold up...listen there is no need for all that Back: NO YOUR A BLANK FOR WALKING ON THE SIDEWALK. Lady: WTF....oh ****** no. you need to stop smoking crack and look around you and read up on the law because no one is breaking it. seriously woman...you went off on a tangent...thinking I called you a "name"....how clearly can i say this I DID NOT CALL YOU A TROLL! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
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Seriously.....I have never met someone so Dense..... How old are you again.....and you wonder why you are in the predicament you are in......seems you like to pick fights...
Here is some advice...loose the crack pipe it will do wonders for you.
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Please don't be so judgmental. Take your own advice......you can ask anyone here as a long time member I do have sound advice to offer....But when someone immediatly attacks without listening to reasoning....I will not back down when nothing on my part was done wrong I will fight for whats right and good....God made me that way....He gave me my good parts and my flaws....You what a good opinion I will be willing to offer it....but not when you act in the manner you have.
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