I thought he was telling me the truth. A year ago he had some very inappropriate emails go to a girl he works with. He said she was at her 'end' and wanted to help her. Poetry and spending over 40n hours a month with her on the cell and over 75 texts was overboard to me his wife of 28 years. He stopped calling told me no more myspace becuase she is fine now. Well it was a lie. Still myspace emails and spending time on phone. ALl the while I begged him to go to see a marriage therapist.
She finally left him he was so depressed and we found a medium no happy but, I believed in him. Mush to my detriment. He said he never talked to her anymore and didn't need to. He told me he just wanted them back as customers and there was no emotional ties. I believed him. Strike 2 for me.
Now today I find from spector pro my husband looks at girls not women but, girls dressed in scantily clad clothes. He logs on to that girls myspace also.
Instead of being honest and truthful he tells me those pictures were downloaded with things he downloaded but, spector pro does not lie it shows everything.
I have had it. Given all my youthfull years to a liar and he never is guilty about anything he has done. He just lies about everything to me. He wants out I am not a girl this to me is a sickmess and perverted and he tells me I am sick because I tell him he has an EA with that girl he wrote to.

((((((Ariana))))))

I know how you feel. My H's excuse was that OW "needed a fantasy" and he was providing it for her. Just as a "friend" of course. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />