Husband has suddenly switched religions and is on a new spiritual forum. Most of the people in this new "so called" religion are women. He joined the forum two months ago, and now has over 250 posts there.
I logged into his account while he was out, and found evidence of him having yahoo chats with a 19 year old girl on the forum, and he was saying in a PM how much he enjoyed their chats, he was laughing all day and into the evening about funny things to say to her, and when was he going to be able to see her smile?
We were on yahoo this past weekend with friends, and several weeks ago he had sent me a request to add his account at work to the home account. When I got on yahoo on Sunday, he saw that the "add request pending" was still there with his username, and deleted it. I did not think anything of it at the time, but now I know that is the username he is using to chat at work with these women. He did not want me know when he is chatting on yahoo.
He said this past weekend how our "sense of humor" is so different, and how I don't find him funny. Not when he makes statements like that.
He had a heart attack this past year, and our sex life is miserable due to the six different medications, and I have told him that I am sexually frustrated.
We have been married for 18 years, one child. He is 46 years old, I am 44.
Two weeks ago, I signed up to the forum he is on, and I introduced myself and just said hello. What did hubby do? He made jokes of how he wanted to run away and hide, in replies on my intro thread. Other people thought it was hilarious. I failed to see the humor, and told him of my displeasure. Not only that, but he let his crowd there on the forum know that I did not share their beliefs.
What next?