28 Nov: It's been 28 days now since I found out she's had an affair 'making out' ?only?. Been at sea since July in the Navy, 20 days left. When I first found out--she initially just tried to end the marriage. Then she agreed to wait to 'see how she felt' when I got home. For a while she was nice--was still in contact with OG. On 20 Nov she found out I knew who it was (circumstantial evidence only) but she knows I know just won't admit it because she is afraid I'll contact his training command he is at. So based on that she texted me and told me she quit communicating with him (his communication time in BUDS training is pretty limited anyway).

Now for the problem I can't figure out. Mainly being at sea I can't get any info really. At any rate, she was nice in the beginning (when she was getting both of our attention) but since she says she broke of contact with him she has been absolutely a different woman since. She seems hostile towards me, she is mean, and irritable when she talks to me. She also pretty much ignores me, I have to initiate all chat, emails, and phone calls. Is she going thru withdrawls from this guy or is she putting up a barricade on our relationship because she is still contacting him and trying to just run my nerves into the ground until I let her go? She says, as early as last night if she had to chose to stay with me or leave me she would leave me. She actually said we were thru-but had her wedding ring on today on her way to work-said its pretty is the only reason.

Alot of tea leaves to read I know but anyone have ideas. Her behavior is actually starting to scare me. She seems just crazy nuts completely. Has anyone experience with this kind of behavior?