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Re: Calling all regulars and pros... ilovedebbie #1979362 12/10/07 09:11 AM
Joined: Jun 2006 Posts: 6,058 M Mark1952 Member
Mark1952 Member M Joined: Jun 2006 Posts: 6,058	Quote We've talked several times, Until she leaves, no more relationship discussions, OK? Just, as you describe, be nice to her and show her what she is giving up. You have the right idea to help put pressure on the affair, but I'm not sure how that part will stand up legally over time. If you can get a judge to bless it for you, then you're way ahead of the game. Keep us posted on how things are going and come here to vent any old time. Hang tuff. Mark

Re: Calling all regulars and pros... Mark1952 #1979363 12/10/07 09:21 AM
Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 10,107 England,United Kingdom B Bob_Pure Member
Bob_Pure Member B Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 10,107 England,United Kingdom	ILD You've been getting great advice. why are you ignoring the repeated advice to find somebody whose opinion OM values and expose to them ? We don't advise this out of spite or foolishness - we have learned that few affairs can withstand the exposure to the light of truth. They thrive in darkness, self delusion, sneakiness. Tell us about OM, what you know. Everything. Even though it may scare you, exposing to OMs circle is likely the most self-dignifying and effective action you can take right now. All blessings MB Alumni

Re: Calling all regulars and pros... Bob_Pure #1979364 12/10/07 09:41 AM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 10 I ilovedebbie Junior Member
ilovedebbie Junior Member I Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 10	Problem with OM is I don't know anything about him. I did find a business card for him, but there is no listing of the business anywhere. The only thing I might know is that he was arrested beginning of Nov for DUI (2nd offense) and driving on a suspended license, if it's the same person. Other than that, all I know is her name. As far as putting pressure on my wife, I've told her parents, but they are believing the lies she is telling them, and I was legally advised not to tell her employer, (it could risk her job). Got to do what is legally correct. As far as her friends, I don't know how to contact them. I'm kinda stuck in the dark. I'm not sure her friends would care anyway, they don't have the best morals themselves.

Re: Calling all regulars and pros... ilovedebbie #1979365 12/10/07 11:10 AM
Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 10,107 England,United Kingdom B Bob_Pure Member
Bob_Pure Member B Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 10,107 England,United Kingdom	Find out. Hire a PI. Give them the business card. If he has kept his info closely held, there is EVERY CHANCE he has a lot to lose by his inner circle finding out. Snoop ! Do this NOBLE thing and start unleashing MB in your lives ! How were you " legally advised" not to tell her employer ? Who told you that ? How can passing on the facts of "her new love" to her boss possibly be a hostile action ? Read my stuff in the link in my sig and look up " exposure" and see what effect it had in my Squid's entrenched affair ! MB Alumni

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