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Will a WS typically flirt or try to replace her OP elsewhere? #1980728 11/30/07 03:35 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9 C cwslagga Junior Member
cwslagga Junior Member C Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9	I'm just curious. We are hopefully finishing up withdrawal and are in with a good counselor. I have seen where my WW has done an internet search on flirting with men. Is this just the bizarre withdrawal emotions or should I be concerned she is looking for ANY other man to replace her OP?

Re: Will a WS typically flirt or try to replace her OP elsewhere? cwslagga #1980729 11/30/07 03:46 PM
Joined: Sep 2007 Posts: 658 S suamico Member
suamico Member S Joined: Sep 2007 Posts: 658	Quote I'm just curious. We are hopefully finishing up withdrawal and are in with a good counselor. I have seen where my WW has done an internet search on flirting with men. Is this just the bizarre withdrawal emotions or should I be concerned she is looking for ANY other man to replace her OP? Did you confront her about this? Is there any way she could be unsure of her flirting (doesn't think she is flirting but maybe you have told her it is) and she wants to see what is considered flirting? Maybe she wants to learn how to flirt with you? If she is LOOKING for ways to flirt with OTHER men then that is a red flag. If you haven't talked to her about this I would bring it up. W (me) 44 H 43 Married 19 years DS 17 DS 15 DD 13 DD 8

Re: Will a WS typically flirt or try to replace her OP elsewhere? suamico #1980730 11/30/07 04:13 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 64 M MrStrype Member
MrStrype Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 64	She could be trying to get a definition of what flirting is. She may be trying to get ideas on how to flirt with you. I agree with suamico, you need to ask her about it. If she gets mad that you're spying on her, just remember, as a BS, it's your right to take steps to insure you won't be betrayed again and to keep an eye on the health of your M. What was the exact wording of the search she did? ~Mark Me: BH, 43 Her: FWW, 38 Married: Feb 29, 1996 Children: 2 Boys-11 & 14 EA started: sometime in 2006? PA started: 08/21/07 D-Day: 10/24/07 No Contact initiated: 10/24/07 OM: My "ex-best friend" of over 20 years.

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