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stillsinging...I truly hope you seek out Mrs. W. She is a blessing to this board. And she's a southerner too... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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Oh Lord, don't start all that yankee crap again <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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S_S I guarantee if you step out of line posting to a BS or are foggy or spew non-MB principles that you will have your [censored] handed to you very quickly.
It is natural that you would post to people you feel empathy for or that you recognise you can help because of your own experiences so (subject to the above caveat) I say go for it.
It will help you as well posting to other people and you will be amazed at how much you will learn and change as a result.
Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
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S_S I guarantee if you step out of line posting to a BS or are foggy or spew non-MB principles that you will have your [censored] handed to you very quickly.
It is natural that you would post to people you feel empathy for or that you recognise you can help because of your own experiences so (subject to the above caveat) I say go for it.
It will help you as well posting to other people and you will be amazed at how much you will learn and change as a result. Ditto what he said.
Husband was unfaithful to me before and after our marriage, at least 7 times. I found out 13 yrs into the marriage. Trickle truth for an entire year. Several different d-days, so it was more like a d-year. Difficult recovery.
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Seconded! And she's a southerner too... Ughhh, as if. Yank here and PROUD of it, ya Dixie Dooodle heads.
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stillsinging...I truly hope you seek out Mrs. W. She is a blessing to this board.
Seconded! And she's a southerner too... I thirded it. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
Husband was unfaithful to me before and after our marriage, at least 7 times. I found out 13 yrs into the marriage. Trickle truth for an entire year. Several different d-days, so it was more like a d-year. Difficult recovery.
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Dixie Doodle head to you too, Mopers.
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Thanks, Mrs. W!
I guess a more accurate way of putting it is "I am finally starting to see how my thought process was wrong or foggy."
I read on here about WSs and their fogspeak, and saw myself in many of those statements, even last week, and I don't feel that way at all any more. I guess this thread proves that even when we begin to see the light, it IS still a process.
With your help, I will get there eventually, though! *beaming with pride* <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Husband was unfaithful to me before and after our marriage, at least 7 times. I found out 13 yrs into the marriage. Trickle truth for an entire year. Several different d-days, so it was more like a d-year. Difficult recovery.
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Ahhhh....thanks Res. /high five <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
Husband was unfaithful to me before and after our marriage, at least 7 times. I found out 13 yrs into the marriage. Trickle truth for an entire year. Several different d-days, so it was more like a d-year. Difficult recovery.
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Thanks Bit and Mopey! *blushing* <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> And pooey to that "flat headed yankee gal" Jo! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> I think you will be greatly helped by posting to others S_S...That is the psth that I took and it has worked out exceptionally well... Mrs. W
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Just to be sure, cuz I realize this thread started over a question about my music...
We have put the music away until/unless DH says he is 150% OK with it.
I read believers post on w2s thread, which stated that he had a hard time reading my posts b/c I was still foggy about this point. Believe me, my posts from last week, and the question about the music was still way gone, and I have realized that fact. So, it isn't really a question anymore, I guess.
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Um.... Believer is a woman...
The only balls that believer has are her ex husband's mounted above her fireplace!
Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
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See, there ya'll go on that yankee stuff. Didja have to get her started! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Seriously, Mrs. W, I am still laughing about the "more than one way to skin a cat" thing...it changed my whole perspective in an instant (as did BK). You are the best!
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We have put the music away until/unless DH says he is 150% OK with it. 10-4 on the foggielessness. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> What a loving thing to do.
Husband was unfaithful to me before and after our marriage, at least 7 times. I found out 13 yrs into the marriage. Trickle truth for an entire year. Several different d-days, so it was more like a d-year. Difficult recovery.
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hahahaha...oh man BK, you are a TRIP! I actually wondered when I typed "he" if I was gettin' it right. Guess I shouldn't gamble even with 50/50 odds, huh!
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Dixie Doodle head to you too, Mopers. Soooooo...was that a compliment? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> I'll take it anyway. I is a southerner too. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
Husband was unfaithful to me before and after our marriage, at least 7 times. I found out 13 yrs into the marriage. Trickle truth for an entire year. Several different d-days, so it was more like a d-year. Difficult recovery.
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Thanks, mopey...it's the LEAST I could do.
Oh that entitlement thing. What a bugger!
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See, there ya'll go on that yankee stuff. Didja have to get her started! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Seriously, Mrs. W, I am still laughing about the "more than one way to skin a cat" thing...it changed my whole perspective in an instant (as did BK). You are the best! LOL S_S...Shhhh, don't tell anyone, but I am married to one of them thar Scallywag Yankee Boy Carpetbaggers! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> I'm glad that we could help you out...Yeah, that skin a cat thing was not one of my best moments here...sigh...You should go back and read how bad I was...I first posted here only 10 days out of NC...FOGFEST...One of my thread titles was something REALLY stupid about gaining more clarity from having contact with OM...I was a nutball... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> This place was a Godsend for Mr. W and I... Mrs. W
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Btw, I'm changing over to calling you LaLa...I'm sick of putting that danged "_" between the Esses...<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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Oh that entitlement thing. What a bugger! Ya know, don't tell anybody cuz it's a secret, k? But we BSs have some of that going on too. Ssshhhhh..... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
Husband was unfaithful to me before and after our marriage, at least 7 times. I found out 13 yrs into the marriage. Trickle truth for an entire year. Several different d-days, so it was more like a d-year. Difficult recovery.
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