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I am getting better day by day! I always keep up with your thread...you know dat! Has she shown any signs to you yet that she knows? Of course, you've been working, though, right? So maybe she'll crack a little later. You are doing great!

W2S is doing well...he is pretty upset over 14's sitch. Brings up some tough memories. We are actually going to spend his days off together, and away from the board because we need some "us" time. It's hard not to get emotionally involved and then spend hours reading and posting, ya know. But we will get caught up again and see what going on when we get back.

I don't feel one bit bad about being "tough" on RIM. I refuse to let myself be involved in that sitch any more. I was up typing frantically at 3:00 a.m. last night because I thought she was in desperate need of help. I actually let it get to me in a major way. That was MY BAD, and I OWN that...it won't happen again. She refuses to acknowledge that I DID give her a plan, because the plan I gave her doesn't involve staying enmeshed in the drama...which I am now convinced she is determined to do. So, I am done. I have too much on my plate right now for that kind of drama.

AnyHOO, I hope your day goes well...I'm off to spend time with my beautiful boys!

Hugs for da peeps!!!!!!!!!!!


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Hi Lala,

Check in later on because at one point today I will be talking to the neighbor. My best case scenario is that she couldn't do it. If she did then my WW has a real good poker face. Either way Believer put it best, the fact that he has a new GF is good.

I'm scared that she will try the “I got to sow my oats" before the fog lift. But right now it's back to the plan.


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I will actually be here on and off all day...Dh doesn't get home from work until almost 1:00 a.m., and then after that our weekend begins!

I'll be sure to keep an eye out for ya!


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I hope you and your DH and boys have a great couple of days together...... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> you two deserve it.


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Thanks, Bella! Big ditto to you having a GREAT weekend!


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nesre...tried to find a thread for you...have you started one? Wanted to thank you for your support with that sitch!! No sense in enabling people, ya know!

Although now I am painfully curious about the "post from last week!" Sorry-can't help it...it's a sickness! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />


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Just wanted to say HI to the luuuuuvvvvv birds. *giggling*

Hope you guys are still able to get a little down time with the the yungins being sick.

No need to check in....lol...

Catch yall later. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />


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Hey mopey! The kiddos are actually pretty good today. We are having a great day together. After the boys go to bed will be our, ahem, FUN ALONE time!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> We are going to have a few drinks and play some video games and get caught up on our shows (5 soap episodes, 4 Am Idols, 3 ERs, etc). The DVR is about to start smokin! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" />

I hope you are having a good day.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


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After the boys go to bed will be our, ahem, FUN ALONE time!! We are going to have a few drinks and play some video games and get caught up on our shows (5 soap episodes, 4 Am Idols, 3 ERs, etc). The DVR is about to start smokin!


Ok I see something very wrong with this..... Let me take a stab at W2Ss take on it.


After the boys go to bed will be our, ahem, FUN ALONE time!! We are going to have a few drinks (SF - Foreplay) and play some video games (SF -More Foreplay)and get caught up on our shows (5 soap episodes, 4 Am Idols, 3 ERs, etc).Plan on only 1 or 2(SF -More Foreplay) The DVR is about to start smokin! (SF - then smokin)

Does that sound better bud? ROFLMAO!!!

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TMTS you are hysterical.....LOL


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OMG.....I need to avoid threads that talk about "having fun" since I won't be gettin' any for awhile! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />

Gonna walk it off now.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />


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Lucky Me!!!!!

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" />
<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" />
<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />

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OMG!!! MEN!!!

OK, so I guess we'll just do all of the above...NAKED! How's that for TMI!!

Good grief...buncha pervy pervertons!


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OK, so I guess we'll just do all of the above...NAKED! How's that for TMI!!


It's nekkid LaLa. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


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Gotcha...English to mopey...naked to nekkid...GOT IT!

Sorry, BTW...we were where you are now not very long ago, so I know how you feel. Hugs for mopey ((((mopers)))). I know it's not quite the same, but...


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I'll take what I can get. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

*shrugging off to go do laundry*


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OK, so I guess we'll just do all of the above...NAKED


Now that's better.

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Good grief...buncha pervy pervertons!


You see what happens when we don't get it for a while. LOL
Hey I hope you guys had a few duck farts first.

That will teach you to even insinuate SF on here. ROFL!!!!

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HHHHHHHahahahahahaha!

You are silly! Now get on over to your thread and give us an update on the evening...da peeps be jonesin'!


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Are there any adults in here?


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