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#1987398 12/10/07 04:38 PM
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OK how do I handle Plan B when WS continues to live in the house because he knows if he leaves it would be considered abandonment. He continues to contact OW on internet and cell. Blatant. I am working on separation agreement but can he just continue to do this? I don't know how to get through a year of this humiliation. We "separated" since Saturday. How do you live separated in the same house?

EA D Day Nov. 22
PA D Day Nov. 30
WS 40
BS 36
Son 5, Daughter 3


D Day PA 11/22/07, PA started 11/10/07 WH Engaged to OW by 12/07/07 WH 41 BS 37 OW 25 DD 3 Married 10 Years + 3 years cohabitation DS5 WH moved to another country 01/27/08
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Might I suggest you do plan A anyway. You are in the same house. You are together. That is all that is needed to start YOUR plan. Keep reading, decide what your goals are, start acting on your convictions, have a strong, centered, self. His actions and words will be hurtful, you should just sidestep them and proceed with care and a loving attitude. Show him the best of you no matter what he shows you. God calls us to love our enemies and a WS is an alien enemy. Keept the faith, read my "strong" plan A post.


God's goal for marriage: Become ONE! How? MBer methods.
Me:husband 42
wife, 40
married 1/12/1991
3 children, 1 granddaughter

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