Today is our 8th anniversary. H called me this morning and said "Just so you won't think I forgot, happy anniversary". Gee, that was romantic. <P>I got him a present, which he took today when he came to see the kids at lunch while I was at work. I know some people think I'm nuts to have gotten him a present, but personally I'm proud of myself. I'm sticking to what I think is right, and honoring this day as it should be honored. <P>But -- I also signed the waiver of service today. Not because it was our anniversary, but because H accused me of stalling it and wants to get it done before he goes away next week. I could have put it in the mail to the lawyer, but instead I left it for him to mail. So he knows I signed it. <P>So -- that officially starts the divorce process. <P>Saw him at soccer practice this evening. He wanted to give me a hug to thank me for the present, but I wouldn't let him. The other soccer parents think it's bizarre enough already. <P>I'm going to go out tomorrow and buy myself a present. Something for the house to celebrate my new life.

Happy Anniversary, Animac - we share this day, you know. <P>lori

animac,you deserve it. go for it and good luck!<BR>

Animac,<P>Happy Anniversary. Let us know what you buy for yourself. I think that honoring this day was the right thing to do too. I am proud of you too! <P>------------------<BR>God bless you and all of us.<P>Samantha<BR>

Happy Anniversary Annie!<BR>Hope you treat yourself to the best!

Sorry to hear that the divorce proceedings will have started soon for you , BUT. I myself have done the same, signed the damned papers and have recanted. <P>I have come back to life and will be dead for two years before I give up on this relationship. I would suggest the same to you. I don't take much stock in what "they" say right now. <P>They are not in their right minds and neither are we. One day soon the fog will clear for all of us and bring a brighter day.<P>Wishing us all the Best<P>Medic

Happy Anniversary Animac!

Anie - H.A. from me too! My W's and mine were yesterday! We went out for dinner and had a good time! Hope you did too! R & B,<P>--Wex<BR>

Happy Anniversary. Wish there was something I could say to make you feel better. But all I can say is good thoughts and prayers are with you.<P>------------------<BR>di<P>

Happy Anniversary...if anyone deserves to celebrate making it from one year to the next while honoring their vows, it is you!<P>And if indeed a door does close, another will open and a new life is something to be thankful for and celebrate as well.<P>Our good Lord has great plans for you!<P>------------------<BR>Faith, Hope, Love Remain,<BR>but the greatest of these is Love.<BR>1 Corinthians 13:13

Happy Anniversary Annie !!!<P>Hope you bought yourself something very special.....<P>My thoughts and prayers are with you.<P>Hugs,<P>Sheba

Annie,<P>You truly deserve to have a happy day today! I think it was the right thing to get him a present. We cannot let go as easily as they seem to be doing. We have to work through it at our own pace and in our own way. You are showing your true colors as a caring and compassionate person!<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html</A>

Thanks, everyone! I'm going to get a 'foosball' table for the basement as my present to myself. I've always wanted one, and one of my goals for the coming months is to clean up the basement to make it more of a family playroom. One of the fun things we have in the basement is an arcade game that my H gave me for our 1st anniversary. It was a game we had played in college together quite a bit. Once upon a time, I actually knew how to have fun!

Hi Ani-<BR>Happy anniversary - have fun with foosball! By getting your H a gift you should be proud of yourself! You are living and acting in a way that is true to your heart and your values - and that will serve you well wherever your path takes you from here...<P>

Happy Anniversary!!!! <P>MONDO HUG!!!<P>------------------<BR>God Bless,<BR>Rob<P><BR>

Annie - Happy anniversary! And just remember, there is life after divorce. It sounds like you're approaching it with a very positive attitude and I think that's great. My divorce from my 1st W was one of the best things I ever did in my life. It really did free me up for a new life. It'll be tough in parts, but I think you'll be truly amazed. Anyway, I wish you all the best in the new direction your life is taking. Regards and blessings (hugs too!)<P>--Wex

Whoops! Forgot I'd already sent congrats. But I wanted to add the other stuff anyway. R & B,<P>--Wex

Annie - oops! I missed your post earlier but wanted to wish you a happy anniversary. I do hope you treated yourself well like everyone advised - you deserve it!!!<BR>(I sort of wonder whether your H will really get to the mailbox...

Thanks, guys! <BR>Simone-yeah, I wonder, too. He said the famous line again yesterday after he acknowledged receiving the papers, "we'll talk". This time I'm not holding my breath.